Guy keeps wanting to come over immediately

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op, you being extra stubborn in this case. Go out with him, make plans to sleep over or something and then decide if it is worth pursuing.

No. OP, you need to respect yourself and carefully screen the dates. You do not owe them sex unless you want sex. This guy is a slimeball. You need to have him screened for STD/STI also, and have a PI look into him too. He sounds very weird.

[Anonymous]

He just wants sex on his terms.

[Anonymous]

He thinks you are even more pathetic and desperate than him and he wants to use you for free sex.

Are you confused? YATSTL.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He thinks you are even more pathetic and desperate than him and he wants to use you for free sex.

Are you confused? YATSTL.

Oops. You said the quiet part out loud. All women are just negotiating price. Some want a lifetime stipend for very mediocre sex (aka marriage). Many are more reasonable.

[Anonymous]

OP - tell him he needs to use escort .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He thinks you are even more pathetic and desperate than him and he wants to use you for free sex.

Are you confused? YATSTL.

Oops. You said the quiet part out loud. All women are just negotiating price. Some want a lifetime stipend for very mediocre sex (aka marriage). Many are more reasonable.

I don’t think the PP meant that. A romantic relationship requires building it - going out doing things together. Any relationship including your friends and relatives. This guy for dome reason thinks OP owes himself outright. He needs to use escort if he doesn’t want a relationship

[Anonymous]

ew. I'd rather be single than deal with a hot mess like that. He's just a horny and doesn't GAF about you. Don't be a doormat!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He just wants sex on his terms.

isn't that what OP wants to? She doesn't want it and he wants it and there would be a time when she would want it and he should be ready then? LOL