But she is correct. |
Ditto. One parent recently posted on this forum "the trick is to curate a narrative for the kid that appears natural and not contrived. Hiring a private consultant will help with that." I'm also a shameless parent like many here who do as much as they can for their kids. I see nothing wrong with the approach and commend that parent for being honest about it. |
He had tremendous success admitted into elite private high schools. Will see how it goes with college admissions. |
This is exactly what a parent would say about a manufactured activity. Nicely done. |
Sometimes it's not even curating. Simply presenting these ideas to the kids would be helpful. They may be inspired by these ideas and develop something on their own. |
One of my kids had a narrative. The other did not. They both got their top choice to highly selective colleges. |
That is exactly what I did. I encouraged in ways they could expand and develop areas of interest. I saw the interest - which was genuine. I just suggested what could be done with it to go deeper. Example: oh you have this interest but your school doesn't have a club for it. What do you think about starting one? |
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NP, A strip that detects drugs created by a HS student? There are plenty on Amazon. The kid didn't do the chemistry to create it, the kid found a novel way to hide it in straws, bracelets, etc. This I can believe. Can they turn it into a product? Not without help - Adults have this challenge after graduating with an MBA. Who gave the kid seed money?
What I am really skeptical about is when a kid in claims to do advanced chemistry/biology to detect cancer, drugs, ... But they are busy studying for their AP Bio test. Even Mush doesn't embellish his childhood that much. |
bravo! then that’s how it should be described by junior on his college app -“ I did this passion project because my mom encouraged me to do it and suggested ways I could go deeper!” This is the point folks - it all reeks of privilege and entitlement no matter how you try to justify - and you typically need a professional to hide the manufactured part or mommy and daddy’s prompting/coersion will be subtly exposed. I luv the rationales on this string, I guarantee every parent example is delusional. Some hit the lottery and got junior through the admission wickets - and now telling us all how “authentic” their ec is - bleh |
| summing it up - it’s a game, so play it, eyes wide open - but don’t act holier than thou |
Same here. But the one without the narrative had off the charts intellectual vitality in the most unique essays….DC got AO notes about them. School CCO commented on them. Their Ivy AO sought them out to discuss…. The one with the narrative didn’t get that. Still at a similar school. Without a narrative you do need something else to stand out. |
Yep. And we’re all playing by reading this forum. |
Wait, why didn’t your kid with the intellectual vitality have a narrative? Isn’t that how they had very unique essays — a narrative? So what was it that made them stand out (without a narrative)? |
I'm being a supportive and involved parent and yes (gasp! the horror!) I suggested an idea to my kid on how they could develop an interest that they would not have thought of on their own, given their limited life experience. I did not do the work for the kid. The kid liked the idea, took it, and ran with it. I was simply a cheerleader. Odd that is sooooo triggering to you that you had to call me delusional. But some people just like to snipe at others' success I guess. When you see a kid who got something your kid did not, I'm sure it's far far easier to say their parents coerced them (that's the right spelling btw- maybe learn to properly spell your insults next time). I'm sure it's rather hard for you to admit that a kid just may have had something yours did not. By the way, I have suggested other things to kid that kid did not do. It's up to the kid to do something, or not. |
Oldest child; didn’t realize needed to be pointy. Had many many mini spikes and interested in weird esoteric things about general knowledge (unrelated to major) - the kind of kid with a thirst for information and knowledge who is intellectually restless, and it shows. |