Why are men so desperate to be dads

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’ve never met a man desperate to be a dad. Are these the same men who have pregnant women fetishes?

Dh is a fantastic dad, as were our own dads. All would have had full, happy lives without children. Dh wasn’t bothered by our own infertility issues.

In my own life, it’s the women I know who really want kids and have to convince men to have kids.

My ex was desperate to be a dad. He spent two years begging me and wearing me down. I was always meh about the idea. I realized only later that he was trying to get a permanent hold on me because he knew I was ambivalent about him. Unsurprisingly, he's a dogshit dad.

You married someone you were ambivalent about without discussing how you each felt about having kids. You had a child though you were meh about that too. And he’s somehow to blame?

She didn't say they were married so I assume they weren't since she mentioned the ex was trying to get a permanent hold on her. So if she was married that would already be a permanent hold on her versus no marriage and holding her down because she had his baby.

We were married, but the manipulative piece of shit knows that marriage is just a divorce away from ending. Having kids together is a lifelong bond.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’ve never met a man desperate to be a dad. Are these the same men who have pregnant women fetishes?

Dh is a fantastic dad, as were our own dads. All would have had full, happy lives without children. Dh wasn’t bothered by our own infertility issues.

In my own life, it’s the women I know who really want kids and have to convince men to have kids.

My ex was desperate to be a dad. He spent two years begging me and wearing me down. I was always meh about the idea. I realized only later that he was trying to get a permanent hold on me because he knew I was ambivalent about him. Unsurprisingly, he's a dogshit dad.

Yikes! Now that you've mention it, I think that's what my boyfriend is trying to do If I didn't know better.

A LOT of men do this. Run and run far. Don't let him sabotage your birth control or the condoms either. I'm not even kidding.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’ve never met a man desperate to be a dad. Are these the same men who have pregnant women fetishes?

Dh is a fantastic dad, as were our own dads. All would have had full, happy lives without children. Dh wasn’t bothered by our own infertility issues.

In my own life, it’s the women I know who really want kids and have to convince men to have kids.

My ex was desperate to be a dad. He spent two years begging me and wearing me down. I was always meh about the idea. I realized only later that he was trying to get a permanent hold on me because he knew I was ambivalent about him. Unsurprisingly, he's a dogshit dad.

You married someone you were ambivalent about without discussing how you each felt about having kids. You had a child though you were meh about that too. And he’s somehow to blame?

Yes, my ex is to blame for being a dogshit dad. I'm a woman, you see. I can't be a dad. So, as much as you want to blame me for everything, I simply can't take the blame for his failures as a dad. Sorry!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’ve never met a man desperate to be a dad. Are these the same men who have pregnant women fetishes?

Dh is a fantastic dad, as were our own dads. All would have had full, happy lives without children. Dh wasn’t bothered by our own infertility issues.

In my own life, it’s the women I know who really want kids and have to convince men to have kids.

They think dads like me who’ve previously had kids, and are willing to give another women some, are desperate to have more kids for her validation or approval , we aren’t. I’m a good dad, willing to have more, that’s what we’re here to do.

Why do white men like to act as if whatever they're doing is brand new and special? There's nothing new about irresponsible men with hoodrat values running around knocking up multiple women. You're a serial baby daddy because, like all the other serial baby daddies of the world, you're irresponsible with no care for how serious a decision having a baby is.

You know you're not carrying a single pregnancy, you have no intention of doing any of the hard work of raising the child, so why not have 10 kids? You don't care about kids. You care about finding new pussy to leave a mark on. You're the human equivalent of a mosquito that goes around biting one woman after the other. The much maligned inner city absentee dad is your spiritual brother.

I’m already divorced with four kids, I take care of my own kids.

Doubt that very much! I'm sure you write some court-mandated child support checks though.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:When most of them are crappy fathers anyway. Same with women.

They're not desperate to be dads. They're desperate for the social benefits (i.e., taken more seriously at work) of attaining the status of dad. They're also competitive with other men, with kids being just another collectible like cars or watches. That's why they always find a woman to foist all the responsibility on while they mentally check out and chase the next item on their never ending bucket list.

I 100% agree on this! And it's same with a woman now that you mention it. If a woman says she doesn't have kids, she's taken less seriously at work by male coworkers and woman who already have kids and even single moms. It's like everyone at work has less respect for childless women. And it's the most unfair thing ever.

Unfair to women and to men?

Man treated each other the same in my experience and the single moms or mothers don't seem to think anything of childless men but yes of childless women.

So it’s a women vs women thing?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:I’ve never met a man desperate to be a dad. Are these the same men who have pregnant women fetishes?

Dh is a fantastic dad, as were our own dads. All would have had full, happy lives without children. Dh wasn’t bothered by our own infertility issues.

In my own life, it’s the women I know who really want kids and have to convince men to have kids.

My ex was desperate to be a dad. He spent two years begging me and wearing me down. I was always meh about the idea. I realized only later that he was trying to get a permanent hold on me because he knew I was ambivalent about him. Unsurprisingly, he's a dogshit dad.

You married someone you were ambivalent about without discussing how you each felt about having kids. You had a child though you were meh about that too. And he’s somehow to blame?

Yes, my ex is to blame for being a dogshit dad. I'm a woman, you see. I can't be a dad. So, as much as you want to blame me for everything, I simply can't take the blame for his failures as a dad. Sorry!

Then why did you have a child with him?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve never met a man desperate to be a dad. Are these the same men who have pregnant women fetishes?

Dh is a fantastic dad, as were our own dads. All would have had full, happy lives without children. Dh wasn’t bothered by our own infertility issues.

In my own life, it’s the women I know who really want kids and have to convince men to have kids.

They think dads like me who’ve previously had kids, and are willing to give another women some, are desperate to have more kids for her validation or approval , we aren’t. I’m a good dad, willing to have more, that’s what we’re here to do.

Why do white men like to act as if whatever they're doing is brand new and special? There's nothing new about irresponsible men with hoodrat values running around knocking up multiple women. You're a serial baby daddy because, like all the other serial baby daddies of the world, you're irresponsible with no care for how serious a decision having a baby is.

You know you're not carrying a single pregnancy, you have no intention of doing any of the hard work of raising the child, so why not have 10 kids? You don't care about kids. You care about finding new pussy to leave a mark on. You're the human equivalent of a mosquito that goes around biting one woman after the other. The much maligned inner city absentee dad is your spiritual brother.

I’m already divorced with four kids, I take care of my own kids.

Sure you do. We all believe you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve never met a man desperate to be a dad. Are these the same men who have pregnant women fetishes?

Dh is a fantastic dad, as were our own dads. All would have had full, happy lives without children. Dh wasn’t bothered by our own infertility issues.

In my own life, it’s the women I know who really want kids and have to convince men to have kids.

My ex was desperate to be a dad. He spent two years begging me and wearing me down. I was always meh about the idea. I realized only later that he was trying to get a permanent hold on me because he knew I was ambivalent about him. Unsurprisingly, he's a dogshit dad.

You married someone you were ambivalent about without discussing how you each felt about having kids. You had a child though you were meh about that too. And he’s somehow to blame?

Yes, my ex is to blame for being a dogshit dad. I'm a woman, you see. I can't be a dad. So, as much as you want to blame me for everything, I simply can't take the blame for his failures as a dad. Sorry!

Then why did you have a child with him?

That is a very long story and the subject of a protective order. I don't feel the need to share, but I can see why you'd ask.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve never met a man desperate to be a dad. Are these the same men who have pregnant women fetishes?

Dh is a fantastic dad, as were our own dads. All would have had full, happy lives without children. Dh wasn’t bothered by our own infertility issues.

In my own life, it’s the women I know who really want kids and have to convince men to have kids.

They think dads like me who’ve previously had kids, and are willing to give another women some, are desperate to have more kids for her validation or approval , we aren’t. I’m a good dad, willing to have more, that’s what we’re here to do.

Why do white men like to act as if whatever they're doing is brand new and special? There's nothing new about irresponsible men with hoodrat values running around knocking up multiple women. You're a serial baby daddy because, like all the other serial baby daddies of the world, you're irresponsible with no care for how serious a decision having a baby is.

You know you're not carrying a single pregnancy, you have no intention of doing any of the hard work of raising the child, so why not have 10 kids? You don't care about kids. You care about finding new pussy to leave a mark on. You're the human equivalent of a mosquito that goes around biting one woman after the other. The much maligned inner city absentee dad is your spiritual brother.

I’m already divorced with four kids, I take care of my own kids.

Doubt that very much! I'm sure you write some court-mandated child support checks though.

He wrote in another thread that he was divorced when his child was 1, and wants to have more children with his new gf - who he has "helping" out with his kids. He most definitely is not taking care of his children.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve never met a man desperate to be a dad. Are these the same men who have pregnant women fetishes?

Dh is a fantastic dad, as were our own dads. All would have had full, happy lives without children. Dh wasn’t bothered by our own infertility issues.

In my own life, it’s the women I know who really want kids and have to convince men to have kids.

They think dads like me who’ve previously had kids, and are willing to give another women some, are desperate to have more kids for her validation or approval , we aren’t. I’m a good dad, willing to have more, that’s what we’re here to do.

Why do white men like to act as if whatever they're doing is brand new and special? There's nothing new about irresponsible men with hoodrat values running around knocking up multiple women. You're a serial baby daddy because, like all the other serial baby daddies of the world, you're irresponsible with no care for how serious a decision having a baby is.

You know you're not carrying a single pregnancy, you have no intention of doing any of the hard work of raising the child, so why not have 10 kids? You don't care about kids. You care about finding new pussy to leave a mark on. You're the human equivalent of a mosquito that goes around biting one woman after the other. The much maligned inner city absentee dad is your spiritual brother.

I’m already divorced with four kids, I take care of my own kids.

Doubt that very much! I'm sure you write some court-mandated child support checks though.

He wrote in another thread that he was divorced when his child was 1, and wants to have more children with his new gf - who he has "helping" out with his kids. He most definitely is not taking care of his children.

A serial baby daddy who runs from his responsibilities. Not surprising at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve never met a man desperate to be a dad. Are these the same men who have pregnant women fetishes?

Dh is a fantastic dad, as were our own dads. All would have had full, happy lives without children. Dh wasn’t bothered by our own infertility issues.

In my own life, it’s the women I know who really want kids and have to convince men to have kids.

They think dads like me who’ve previously had kids, and are willing to give another women some, are desperate to have more kids for her validation or approval , we aren’t. I’m a good dad, willing to have more, that’s what we’re here to do.

Why do white men like to act as if whatever they're doing is brand new and special? There's nothing new about irresponsible men with hoodrat values running around knocking up multiple women. You're a serial baby daddy because, like all the other serial baby daddies of the world, you're irresponsible with no care for how serious a decision having a baby is.

You know you're not carrying a single pregnancy, you have no intention of doing any of the hard work of raising the child, so why not have 10 kids? You don't care about kids. You care about finding new pussy to leave a mark on. You're the human equivalent of a mosquito that goes around biting one woman after the other. The much maligned inner city absentee dad is your spiritual brother.

I’m already divorced with four kids, I take care of my own kids.

Doubt that very much! I'm sure you write some court-mandated child support checks though.

Why? I posted about this on the remarrying thread. My exwife knows that I’m an involved dad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve never met a man desperate to be a dad. Are these the same men who have pregnant women fetishes?

Dh is a fantastic dad, as were our own dads. All would have had full, happy lives without children. Dh wasn’t bothered by our own infertility issues.

In my own life, it’s the women I know who really want kids and have to convince men to have kids.

They think dads like me who’ve previously had kids, and are willing to give another women some, are desperate to have more kids for her validation or approval , we aren’t. I’m a good dad, willing to have more, that’s what we’re here to do.

Why do white men like to act as if whatever they're doing is brand new and special? There's nothing new about irresponsible men with hoodrat values running around knocking up multiple women. You're a serial baby daddy because, like all the other serial baby daddies of the world, you're irresponsible with no care for how serious a decision having a baby is.

You know you're not carrying a single pregnancy, you have no intention of doing any of the hard work of raising the child, so why not have 10 kids? You don't care about kids. You care about finding new pussy to leave a mark on. You're the human equivalent of a mosquito that goes around biting one woman after the other. The much maligned inner city absentee dad is your spiritual brother.

I’m already divorced with four kids, I take care of my own kids.

Doubt that very much! I'm sure you write some court-mandated child support checks though.

He wrote in another thread that he was divorced when his child was 1, and wants to have more children with his new gf - who he has "helping" out with his kids. He most definitely is not taking care of his children.

A serial baby daddy who runs from his responsibilities. Not surprising at all.

Right? Who's going to take any advice from this discount disney dad seriously? No thank you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve never met a man desperate to be a dad. Are these the same men who have pregnant women fetishes?

Dh is a fantastic dad, as were our own dads. All would have had full, happy lives without children. Dh wasn’t bothered by our own infertility issues.

In my own life, it’s the women I know who really want kids and have to convince men to have kids.

They think dads like me who’ve previously had kids, and are willing to give another women some, are desperate to have more kids for her validation or approval , we aren’t. I’m a good dad, willing to have more, that’s what we’re here to do.

Why do white men like to act as if whatever they're doing is brand new and special? There's nothing new about irresponsible men with hoodrat values running around knocking up multiple women. You're a serial baby daddy because, like all the other serial baby daddies of the world, you're irresponsible with no care for how serious a decision having a baby is.

You know you're not carrying a single pregnancy, you have no intention of doing any of the hard work of raising the child, so why not have 10 kids? You don't care about kids. You care about finding new pussy to leave a mark on. You're the human equivalent of a mosquito that goes around biting one woman after the other. The much maligned inner city absentee dad is your spiritual brother.

I’m already divorced with four kids, I take care of my own kids.

Doubt that very much! I'm sure you write some court-mandated child support checks though.

Why? I posted about this on the remarrying thread. My exwife knows that I’m an involved dad.

Right. Your ex would agree, God is your witness, you swear on your mom, blah blah blah. You're such an involved dad of four young kids, which is why you live full time on this website bashing your ex.

[Anonymous]

Huh, not only was I not desperate, but having kids was a condition for my wife to get married and something I had to think about and even get counseling on before agreeing.

Glad I did, and am an engaged father, but at the time it wasn't on my roadmap. It's possibly I'd have realized later on, or even become desperate but that seems unlikely. My parents though, they'd have been desperate for me to have kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve never met a man desperate to be a dad. Are these the same men who have pregnant women fetishes?

Dh is a fantastic dad, as were our own dads. All would have had full, happy lives without children. Dh wasn’t bothered by our own infertility issues.

In my own life, it’s the women I know who really want kids and have to convince men to have kids.

They think dads like me who’ve previously had kids, and are willing to give another women some, are desperate to have more kids for her validation or approval , we aren’t. I’m a good dad, willing to have more, that’s what we’re here to do.

Why do white men like to act as if whatever they're doing is brand new and special? There's nothing new about irresponsible men with hoodrat values running around knocking up multiple women. You're a serial baby daddy because, like all the other serial baby daddies of the world, you're irresponsible with no care for how serious a decision having a baby is.

You know you're not carrying a single pregnancy, you have no intention of doing any of the hard work of raising the child, so why not have 10 kids? You don't care about kids. You care about finding new pussy to leave a mark on. You're the human equivalent of a mosquito that goes around biting one woman after the other. The much maligned inner city absentee dad is your spiritual brother.

I’m already divorced with four kids, I take care of my own kids.

Doubt that very much! I'm sure you write some court-mandated child support checks though.

Why? I posted about this on the remarrying thread. My exwife knows that I’m an involved dad.

Right. Your ex would agree, God is your witness, you swear on your mom, blah blah blah. You're such an involved dad of four young kids, which is why you live full time on this website bashing your ex.

When have I ever bashed her? I said I still respect and love her, we’re still freinds, spend holidays & travel together.