It's not a support group, and having expectations that anons on the internet are going to support you is... naive. |
What is this board, then? Harlequin romance novel ... fan fiction? |
What have you done as a result of your husband creeping round with women he’s meeting online ? |
Did you use your real name? |
+1 |
What would “support” look like to you? Because your dh is a cheater, and people here think you should dump him. That is rational support. |
| what do you want to hear? He'll stop and be a good husband and father? We all know better. Be a doormat or kick him to the curb! |
Wake up and smell the coffee. You’re married to a cheater. The best support you’re going to get is a recommendation to head over to Tracy Schorn aka Chump Lady’s website and get a copy of her book Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life. |
Err so that definitely means something has happened already. He's a cheater and he's cheating on you. Do you want to be the loser who stays with a cheating liar? And a really bad one at that? |
| Girllllll |
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Get your ducks in a row for divorce. He’s most likely also cheating physically.
But two can play this game. Make an online dating profile yourself. You’ll get 100x the matches he does. Accidentally leave it open for him to see. |
| What a f**kface. |
You know that people you know can see these right? Like your wives friends, your coworkers, family members. A good friend would send your wife your profile. A better friend would attempt to catfish you and help your wife divorce. |
True. But a bad friend might lean in. |
Maybe. Its still disgusting to be spreading it around in public that you're a gross nasty cheater, but you do you. |