dh has been meeting women online but claims it's just for the thrill

[Anonymous]

Wow. Came to this board for support.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:more to "match" with them and meet and know someone is interested
but nothing physical happens in most cases.
i discovered this when he left his laptop open

No. Even if he doesn't care about ethics or morals, he gave up his rights for such thrill when he signed a legal marriage contract.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:more to "match" with them and meet and know someone is interested
but nothing physical happens in most cases.
i discovered this when he left his laptop open

At least he doesn't have ADHD and keeps home clean, this is a non-issue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Trolls don't even try these days.

You are the Troll.
Calling every post a Troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Trolls don't even try these days.

You are the Troll.
Calling every post a Troll.

NP. I'm sure poor OP is not a troll.
I'm sorry, OP, your husband is a jerk. He is either actively looking for affairs or already had some. Matching online with women is not how decent married men spend their free time. I'm sorry... Do you have children with this lowlife?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh come on. You cannot possibly believe him.

This

[Anonymous]

I’d divorce over that. No trust, no marriage.

[Anonymous]

Get yourself a panel of STD tests now. Don't have any kind of sex with him until he does in your presence and you get the results.

[Anonymous]

Do you wash dishes and laundry?

[Anonymous]

There are lots of ways to get a thrill that don't involve betraying your spouse.

[Anonymous]

This is about the worst thing I’ve read in a week or longer related to relationships. Just unacceptable.

[Anonymous]

My husband made the same excuse when I caught him. It’s a lie. Even if it were true, that’s a no go from any good husband.

[Anonymous]

I’m guilty of this. Mostly for entertainment.

[Anonymous]

In case you did not know...

This is batshit crazy.

It would be more normal if he started with a valued friend/colleague and then went on to have an emotional or physical affair with her.

But meeting women online for the thrill?

I usually advise against divorce, but this is not going to end well, OP. Please prepare financially for a separation down the road.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:more to "match" with them and meet and know someone is interested
but nothing physical happens in most cases.
i discovered this when he left his laptop open

What now? Come again? Excuse me?

Sorry, but this sounds like a rage-bait.