Spouse flatulence

[Anonymous]

Not this again 🙄🙄🙄🙄

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Ruled out lactose intolerance and no discernable food groups that seem to cause it (but will definitely avoid Chex mix!). Not on a GLP. The night gas is while he’s sleeping so our bedroom stinks to high hell. Maybe this is where the term old fart comes from….

He needs to poop at night before bed. I get that he can’t control his body while sleeping but he does need to make sure his colon is empty before hot boxing you all night. Or he can sleep in the guest room.

This.i very regular and poop 5x a day. So My farts are mostly in private on the toilet because I don’t really trust that it’s not a shart. They usually don’t smell *that* bad, like if if it’s just a gas/air release after chugging a carbonated drink. Because my colon is empty.

My husband’s farts are downright lethal and smell like he did shart! We don’t fart on purpose around each other, but sometimes they slip or we are on walk or I go into the bathroom after he comes out. I love him so much but it’s def an ick.

[Anonymous]

Does your spouse have SIBO small intestine bowel overgrowth? Google it. Do they have the other symptoms including awful gas, stomach pain, brain fog, fatigue, bloating……if so have them see a GI doc and have this checked with a breath test you can do at home. I tested positive this fall and am doing treatment to try to combat this life impairing illness. My gas, constant belching and 5 bowel movements a day wasn’t something I could stop on my own. If it’s not this then something else is going on and they should see a gastro doctor and have it investigated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's normal to fart in front of each other but your spouse is taking it to another level... not normal to fart while eating, or to leave the bathroom that stinky (needs to air it out or use spray).

This assumes it’s something they can control. See my SIBO post above.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is a genuine question—does your DH or DW fart constantly? Or make a show of raising a cheek to fart? Fart while eating? Do you wake up to use the bathroom in the middle of the night and the room smells like a sewer? Trying to get a sense of what’s normal.

We’ve been married a long time, but it seems like this issue is getting worse and since this is not something I want to discuss with girlfriends, I’m posting here.

Yes to all of the above. Raises his cheek, farts during dinner, we can be in the middle of a serious, important conversation and he will lift his butt and fart right while I’m talking. It drives me absolutely insane.

I literally had to make him promise not to fart in the middle of saying our vows, I was that terrified he would.

It’s literally the only red flag he has so I tolerate it. But I hate it. And saying anything is worse, because then he makes a show of “look! I’m opening the door to go stand in the yard for no reason! Nope I’m not doing anything out here! Definitely not farting!”

I did have one other boyfriend 20 years ago who would fart during sex. At least he’s not that bad. But I really don’t understand what goes through their heads and why they think that’s acceptable.

He’s on the spectrum.

He’s definitely not. He just grew up around a lot of guys. And I suspect has some sphincter control issues he’s embarrassed to talk about.

[Anonymous]

You nor anyone here can answer
Your husband needs to go get seen by a doctor

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does your spouse have SIBO small intestine bowel overgrowth? Google it. Do they have the other symptoms including awful gas, stomach pain, brain fog, fatigue, bloating……if so have them see a GI doc and have this checked with a breath test you can do at home. I tested positive this fall and am doing treatment to try to combat this life impairing illness. My gas, constant belching and 5 bowel movements a day wasn’t something I could stop on my own. If it’s not this then something else is going on and they should see a gastro doctor and have it investigated.

I have autoimmune SIBO but am in remission (it can be triggered and can come back). The smelly gas is often due to dysbiosis of the gut and a probiotic might be able to help with that - although if they have active SIBO you want to treat that first and then think about a probiotic.

[Anonymous]

If men want their wives to not lose interest over time, a decent part of that is not farting in her presence unless it’s an accident every once in a while. DH will just do it audibly or let smelly ones off in bed and I can tell you that it takes sex off the table right away. I’m not prude, hell, if you farted during sex I’d laugh my head off and keep going. If you didn’t do it when you were dating because you wanted her to desire you, don’t do it now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If men want their wives to not lose interest over time, a decent part of that is not farting in her presence unless it’s an accident every once in a while. DH will just do it audibly or let smelly ones off in bed and I can tell you that it takes sex off the table right away. I’m not prude, hell, if you farted during sex I’d laugh my head off and keep going. If you didn’t do it when you were dating because you wanted her to desire you, don’t do it now.

I'm a woman and my DH farts all the time. It's perfectly normal to fart and there is no way I'm any less attracted to him because of it or ever would be. So, yes, you are indeed a prude.

[Anonymous]

My gf farts all the time while sleeping and I guess she can't control that but even other times she does. lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If men want their wives to not lose interest over time, a decent part of that is not farting in her presence unless it’s an accident every once in a while. DH will just do it audibly or let smelly ones off in bed and I can tell you that it takes sex off the table right away. I’m not prude, hell, if you farted during sex I’d laugh my head off and keep going. If you didn’t do it when you were dating because you wanted her to desire you, don’t do it now.

This is crazy. I am sure there are some unhygienic habits that women do and men ignores them so it is all on people who think it is big deal but actually not really.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, except it's me. I'm the wife who farts a lot. Hi. 👋🏻

Me too. Cept we are both wives. I’m the gassy one. Pretty sure it’s dairy… I love dairy though so it is what it is.

Same. I never used to fart much but the body gets less efficient as you age, so people become more fart-prone.

[Anonymous]

Statins make you release gas as part of cholesterol blocking.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If men want their wives to not lose interest over time, a decent part of that is not farting in her presence unless it’s an accident every once in a while. DH will just do it audibly or let smelly ones off in bed and I can tell you that it takes sex off the table right away. I’m not prude, hell, if you farted during sex I’d laugh my head off and keep going. If you didn’t do it when you were dating because you wanted her to desire you, don’t do it now.

This is crazy. I am sure there are some unhygienic habits that women do and men ignores them so it is all on people who think it is big deal but actually not really.

Do you all really fart audibly, pick your nose, hock up phlegm, pop zits, and shit in front of your partners? Ugh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Ruled out lactose intolerance and no discernable food groups that seem to cause it (but will definitely avoid Chex mix!). Not on a GLP. The night gas is while he’s sleeping so our bedroom stinks to high hell. Maybe this is where the term old fart comes from….

I mean, I don't think you can control it when you are sleeping. In fact, I didn't even know you COULD fart in your sleep until I started sleeping like sh!t as I got older ... and there DH was, comfortably farting away in his sleep.