Those parents are saving that money for their OWN retirement. A 22+ adult is an adult and you cannot expect or force a parent to pay for that. I get undergrad but after that an adult is an adult |
Our income only counted until my son reached age 24. |
Really it should NOT count past 22 (or completion of undergrad). Sure if you have the money, help your kids with grad school. But they are ADULTS and financial aid should be based on THEIR OWN finances. |
+1 because people whose parents are paying everything do no fill out FAFSA or the grad school equivalent, they just pay the bills |
Poor kid. |
Not for grad/law school. My kid is going to Harvard Law at 27 and it still looks to us to file and pay |
And that is ridiculous. Your kid is 27! Most parents do not pay for graduate/professional school. |
| The school is not saying the parents have to pay..it's saying no financial aid so the student has to figure it out themselves. |
I'm confused. I thought on the FAFSA if you were over 24 years old, you were considered to be an independent student and no longer needed a parent's information for FAFSA. |
Surely that is for institutional, need-based aid, however? Not federal loans? |
| Why not offer more help if you can? |
If you have 500K and 5 million you can afford to pay out of pocket for medical school. You cannot force a parent to pay but its very selfish not to. I don't understand parents like that. We make $200K, and would do our best to pay for grad school, even if it means working till 70, which will happen as older parents and living in a small, not update house to pay. 5 million is very wealty. If you live in a million dollar house, you are wealthy. Be real. |
You aren't on the hook. You say no and your child go to a school they can afford within the loans. $200K in government loans is far more than reasonable. |
Because at 24, they are making choices they cannot afford. OP had her child work a year or two to declare independent to get out of helping, which is fine but then don't complain and expect the government or school to fund your child's education. Going to medical school is a want vs. need. They can defer for a few more years and save up to pay for it. Most reponsible parents who can will pay and if not they are selfish. |
Then, they don't go to graduate school. You choose to have this child. You need to be responsible for their education and not expect the government or school to provide when you can. Of course, they are your responsibility. Simple solution is you don't want to pay, so they will not be going. |