Laughing during sex

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Not speaking to the other parts, but I laugh a lot during sex. Sex is funny and it’s fun. It’s a joyful release. We all make weird faces, sounds and there’s def smells.

It’s our most vulnerable and sometimes it’s also completely hilarious. I take someone laughing in bed as someone that’s enjoying me and not overthinking things.

"there’s def smells." What?

Have you had sex with another person before? We all get a bit sweaty at times.

And your sweat smells? 🤮. Do you not shower before and after sex?

It's one thing to be hygenic/clean. It's another to think sex is going to be sterile. Yes, there are sex-related smells. Quit being a frigid prude about it.

[Anonymous]

OP here to answer questions:

1. I don't perform, but I do definitely get vocal. It's just how I am. I wasn't, like, screaming while we're just making out but I get turned on. And this wasn't romantic-first-kiss kissing, it was we're-in-bed-and-gonna-have-sex making out.

2. I did talk to him about it. He could tell my feelings were hurt and apologized, and explained that he found it cute and endearing. I don't completely buy that explanation, and even if I did....I dunno, even if a man did something in bed I thought was cute and endearing, I wouldn't laugh, because I understand that can be hurtful (versus laughing over something like those horrible chest fart noises, that I understand).

3. Yes, I'm sure he gave me 3 O's, ha. I O pretty easily and I really love sex.

4. In regards to not getting hard, he did say that frequently happens when he first starts seeing someone, and it takes awhile until he can get into sex. I don't know if I believe that, I feel like he's either just not attracted to me, or there's something like porn addiction going on.

5. He's definitely into me, we have another date lined up and talk on the phone daily. And I'm really into him on an emotional level. We have a lot of fun together outside of sex, and can talk for hours and hours.

I'm thinking maybe we should slow things down and not get physically intimate for awhile longer. But then on the other hand, I want to know if these are gonna be long-term issues, because no matter how great a guy is, I can't be with someone who isn't physically attracted to me.

[Anonymous]

Im dating someone for the first time since my divorce and ha been with my exH since I was 19.

The first several times I made out with my current bf, he was moaning and idk why it was so different and jarring for me and honestly a turn off. His face also gets really contorted when he finishes. I didn't laugh or say anything but I think it was all just so different after 20 years of the same.

We've been dating a year now and we recently went to the beach. When he stepped in the sand he let out a little moan of relaxation/joy and it instantly turned me on. So, I have been pavloved into his noises. And holy hell is it insanely fulfilling sex- physically, mentally, emotionally . Im very happy it worked itself out.

[Anonymous]

I think he just got nervous.

I wouldn't overanalyze it.

Neverous laugh. Nervous in the pants.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not speaking to the other parts, but I laugh a lot during sex. Sex is funny and it’s fun. It’s a joyful release. We all make weird faces, sounds and there’s def smells.

It’s our most vulnerable and sometimes it’s also completely hilarious. I take someone laughing in bed as someone that’s enjoying me and not overthinking things.

"there’s def smells." What?

Have you had sex with another person before? We all get a bit sweaty at times.

Wtf?! No! We don't have sweaty smelly sex nasty it sounds like you're not washing your dirty bits. The only smell I've ever smelled is when the condom wrapper is opened a latex rubber smell. I think you need soap and a shower before having sex.

[Anonymous]

Someone who is attracted to you would be turned on by the sounds you make, not find them funny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not speaking to the other parts, but I laugh a lot during sex. Sex is funny and it’s fun. It’s a joyful release. We all make weird faces, sounds and there’s def smells.

It’s our most vulnerable and sometimes it’s also completely hilarious. I take someone laughing in bed as someone that’s enjoying me and not overthinking things.

"there’s def smells." What?

Have you had sex with another person before? We all get a bit sweaty at times.

And your sweat smells? 🤮. Do you not shower before and after sex?

It's one thing to be hygenic/clean. It's another to think sex is going to be sterile. Yes, there are sex-related smells. Quit being a frigid prude about it.

No there isn't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not speaking to the other parts, but I laugh a lot during sex. Sex is funny and it’s fun. It’s a joyful release. We all make weird faces, sounds and there’s def smells.

It’s our most vulnerable and sometimes it’s also completely hilarious. I take someone laughing in bed as someone that’s enjoying me and not overthinking things.

"there’s def smells." What?

Have you had sex with another person before? We all get a bit sweaty at times.

🤢 If you're clean sweat doesn't have a scent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not speaking to the other parts, but I laugh a lot during sex. Sex is funny and it’s fun. It’s a joyful release. We all make weird faces, sounds and there’s def smells.

It’s our most vulnerable and sometimes it’s also completely hilarious. I take someone laughing in bed as someone that’s enjoying me and not overthinking things.

"there’s def smells." What?

Have you had sex with another person before? We all get a bit sweaty at times.

Wtf?! No! We don't have sweaty smelly sex nasty it sounds like you're not washing your dirty bits. The only smell I've ever smelled is when the condom wrapper is opened a latex rubber smell. I think you need soap and a shower before having sex.

I think you have terrible sex, like all squeamish people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not speaking to the other parts, but I laugh a lot during sex. Sex is funny and it’s fun. It’s a joyful release. We all make weird faces, sounds and there’s def smells.

It’s our most vulnerable and sometimes it’s also completely hilarious. I take someone laughing in bed as someone that’s enjoying me and not overthinking things.

"there’s def smells." What?

Have you had sex with another person before? We all get a bit sweaty at times.

And your sweat smells? 🤮. Do you not shower before and after sex?

It's one thing to be hygenic/clean. It's another to think sex is going to be sterile. Yes, there are sex-related smells. Quit being a frigid prude about it.

No there isn't.

You are probably a terrible lay.