Laughing during sex

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Were you being earnestly noisy or performing?

I'm wonder this too. Where you performing like a star of an adult movie?

[Anonymous]

Something could’ve gotten in his head and it made him laugh, sometimes a thought will pollute our headspace and the erection gets knocked out.
If he stuck with it for three or&$ms and wants to see you again then chances are he’s into you, give him the benefit of the doubt.

If he didn’t care he would’ve just put his floppy unit away and left, the fact that he had the maturity to stick it out and not run off I see as a positive.

[Anonymous]

PP here 13:07 I have never done this before but I change my answer. Disregard my pervious post. After I've had a few minutes to think about this this man gave you 3 O's?! Are you sure??? Well then I would for sure give him another shot or two hoping the laughing stops but also wondering why he did not get hard. Has this happened to him before? Did you try everything you could to try? If he's contacting you then he's into you. Sorry I wrote back so quickly without fully thinking this through. My bad.

[Anonymous]

Was he just using hands or his mouth? When exactly did the laughing start and was it just a brief giggle or full on laughing in your face? You were moaning during just the kissing parts? Trying to understand...

[Anonymous]

He's probably gay, not even acknowledging it to himself, and therefore not truly comfortable banging a woman or able to appreciate her enthusiasm for banging him.

Whatever the reason, no way in hell I would continue a relationship with a man who mocked my sexual expression when he can't even get it up. F*ck him, let him make some other dupe his beard.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He's probably gay, not even acknowledging it to himself, and therefore not truly comfortable banging a woman or able to appreciate her enthusiasm for banging him.

Whatever the reason, no way in hell I would continue a relationship with a man who mocked my sexual expression when he can't even get it up. F*ck him, let him make some other dupe his beard.

PS - If this is his extent of emotional maturity in the context of sex, what do you think this person will bring to the table during the inevitable conflicts to come and in the context of child-rearing? Dump him, ASAP.

[Anonymous]

I would have laughed that he could not get it up. Sorry, I am like that.

Ask him if he is gay or addicted to porn?

[Anonymous]

He’s immature and not into you
Move on.

[Anonymous]

The verve of this man, he can't get it up and he's laughing at you?

Do you think maybe you sounded hard up from your reaction to just kissing? Maybe he thought it's amusing how easy you are to turn on? That's pretty much all I can come up unless you were screaming like a corn star like completely fake.
Amazed you kept going with him after this, assuming oral is how the 3 Os were obtained?

Your post is kind of confusing though because you contradict yourself saying that you were moaning during just kissing then said, "I find it so weird that he thinks making noise during sex is funny."

Wondering if you're trolling.

[Anonymous]

I watch porn and I don't even like to see people who are having sex smile, much less laugh. It's usually the woman smiling and looking at the man like, Aren't you wonderful, this is so much fun!

Maybe it's just me but when I'm in the middle of sex I don't have a smile on my face, it's way more intense and epic than that. The look on my face is more like, Oh my god, I'm about explode or pass out this is so fantastic!

Smiling or laughing during sex indicates boredom or lack of interest to me.

If you want to tell jokes or have snacks in between sessions that's fine, but during the actual act there's no room for smiling or laughing if it's good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not speaking to the other parts, but I laugh a lot during sex. Sex is funny and it’s fun. It’s a joyful release. We all make weird faces, sounds and there’s def smells.

It’s our most vulnerable and sometimes it’s also completely hilarious. I take someone laughing in bed as someone that’s enjoying me and not overthinking things.

"there’s def smells." What?

Have you had sex with another person before? We all get a bit sweaty at times.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not speaking to the other parts, but I laugh a lot during sex. Sex is funny and it’s fun. It’s a joyful release. We all make weird faces, sounds and there’s def smells.

It’s our most vulnerable and sometimes it’s also completely hilarious. I take someone laughing in bed as someone that’s enjoying me and not overthinking things.

"there’s def smells." What?

Have you had sex with another person before? We all get a bit sweaty at times.

And your sweat smells? 🤮. Do you not shower before and after sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Something could’ve gotten in his head and it made him laugh, sometimes a thought will pollute our headspace and the erection gets knocked out.
If he stuck with it for three or&$ms and wants to see you again then chances are he’s into you, give him the benefit of the doubt.

If he didn’t care he would’ve just put his floppy unit away and left, the fact that he had the maturity to stick it out and not run off I see as a positive.

Seriously. Try not to overthink this. He sounds like someone worth a second shot to me.

If laughing is making you question this or yourself it’s prob not a match.

Also it’s ok to just not be into HIM.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Recently I started dating a guy and we’ve really hit it off. The other night we hooked up for the first time. While we were still just making out, he suddenly started laughing. I asked what was funny, he wouldn’t answer, I kept pressing it and he said my breathing and moaning was funny. I was turned on and definitely breathing harder, but I don’t think I was doing anything overly loud or weird - if anything I kept it down because I share a wall with my neighbors.

We kept going and he couldn’t get hard. He’s only 30 so it’s not an age thing. He reassured me it was him, not me, and did give me 3 Os.

I’m assuming he’s just not attracted to me, right? I find it so weird that he thinks making noise during sex is funny. He does keep reaching out and wants to go out again, so I’m super confused.

He is a weirdo. On another note, if men cared about dry vaginas that need lube as a "sign" that they are not turned on by us then we would probably dump 80% of women..stop assuming that a man who loses erection doesn't find you attractive. Women need to stop micro analyzing everything that happens during sex. Just enjoy the moment. If he loses his erection do something else etc

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not speaking to the other parts, but I laugh a lot during sex. Sex is funny and it’s fun. It’s a joyful release. We all make weird faces, sounds and there’s def smells.

It’s our most vulnerable and sometimes it’s also completely hilarious. I take someone laughing in bed as someone that’s enjoying me and not overthinking things.

"there’s def smells." What?

Have you had sex with another person before? We all get a bit sweaty at times.

And your sweat smells? 🤮. Do you not shower before and after sex?

Dear Lord, I just mean a little bit of aroma not like I worked out and ran the New York marathon.

Also semen smells like bleach. We all know if we have walked into a room and someone has had sex in there.

Grow up