How frequent is your sex life currently?

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Anonymous wrote:Scheduling is the only way this works with 2 incomes and kids still living at home.

It’s not “spontaneous” or Hollywood-movie, or childishly romantic, but welcome to adulthood.

Why can't it be spontaneous? My kids are in bed by 8/8:30 and then we're up until midnight. That's a lot of time to be spontaneous. There's also morning time.

Teens sleep the same amount or less than us.

So? If you need extra sound dampening, get a TV in your bedroom or "listen" to music during. Just lock the door.

So? Why do you care whether other people schedule? Or don’t want to have sex when their teens are awake and alert and just feet away? Go ahead and do what you are going to do. People here are telling you their situations are different.

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Anonymous wrote:Twice a day 36 and 40

How do you get anything done?!!!

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1-4 times a week. 43 and 46.

4 times this week yay

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2-3x week. 54 and 57

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Twice a day 36 and 40

How do you get anything done?!!!

Bus picks kids up at 745am and we dont start work til 9 from home. Weekly cleaner. Move laundry along as we WFH. Meal prep Sundays or easy dinners. 3 hours at night between sleeping kids and us going to sleep. Idk sex hasn't been an inconvenience and I love being close and having fun in that way.

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53 & 58 twice a week

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So the sex recession is everywhere except DCUM?

https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-sex-recession-the-share-of-americans-having-regular-sex-keeps-dropping

[Anonymous]

4-5/week with my (46f) boyfriend (56m). But we are only together every other week. We ran the number and determined we’ve had more sex in the 18 months we’ve been together than the last 5-10 years of our collective marriages.

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Both 55. Since Jan 20 I think we’ve had sex 5 times. Yes, that’s why.

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55 & 54. 3 times a week. We try to keep it spicy. Impromptu in lots of different places.

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Anonymous wrote:55 & 54. 3 times a week. We try to keep it spicy. Impromptu in lots of different places.

Like where?

[Anonymous]

Every other day, 52/53 years old, married 20 years. We’ve had drier spells but it’s going great right now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Scheduling is the only way this works with 2 incomes and kids still living at home.

It’s not “spontaneous” or Hollywood-movie, or childishly romantic, but welcome to adulthood.

Nonsense. That has been my set up for over 20 years and we’ve never scheduled sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Scheduling is the only way this works with 2 incomes and kids still living at home.

It’s not “spontaneous” or Hollywood-movie, or childishly romantic, but welcome to adulthood.

Why can't it be spontaneous? My kids are in bed by 8/8:30 and then we're up until midnight. That's a lot of time to be spontaneous. There's also morning time.

Honestly, what is wrong with scheduling? I like the anticipation, personally. It's like looking forward to a vacation or dessert.

It’s like a chore you are getting through. I look forward to a clean kitchen too.

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Anonymous wrote:Never, 61 and 62

😩

Honey, is that you?