Do most people in America just not take vacations?

Anonymous
Before the pandemic, we usually traveled to see extended family 2x and went on 1 smaller trip as a nuclear family per year. My PTO at work was like 2 weeks of vacation and 1 week of sick time. They allowed you to rollover a certain number of hours year to year, but I was never able to accrue enough to need to roll it over at the end of the year.

People in Europe don't think that 3 weeks off per year is a lot of time off. Many Americans would be happy to have any PTO at all.
Anonymous
People are caregivers to elderly, children, plants and animals.

The amount of logistics required to take vacations is overwhelming. Very few people can leave everything and take off.
Anonymous
I don't. I take a day off here or there, but don't really go on vacations.

Camping trips - that sounds like hell to me. I'd rather work than go camp.
road trips to visit family - I don't have a car, and the family that lives locally to me is very rich and busy (with all their vacations and rich-people friends and rich-people activities) so I only see them via mass transit every 3-4 months, and the rest of my family lives across the country and flight, hotel, rental car, food, etc. is prohibitively expensive.
Staycations at home - I hate my apartment and do not find it relaxing. It's as good as it can get, and is still crap. Rent-control has me trapped. So a staycation would not be enjoyable.
Anonymous
In the past 3 years, we've taken at least the following trips involving hotels and sometimes flights: 9 nights, 8 nights, 5 nights, 3 nights at least 3 times. Plus driving with hotels for 2 nights 8+ times, 1 night at least 5 times, and a spring break staying with family.

Most of my 10 closet coworkers have gone abroad at least once in that time period. I think only 2 plus me haven't, but they've taken weeklong domestic trips.
Anonymous
i haven't been out of the country in over 10 years.

then i spent time trying to save up leave so i could have a baby, so all my "vacations" were like four-day holiday weekends using credit hours. and maybe a wedding here or there.

now with RTO and no telework, i have only just now taken the first actual unplugged vacations i have ever had in 10 years ... because i ran out of summer camps and backup care hours. in the past i would have gone to stay with the grandparents and worked half-days by getting up at 5am, but now i can't do that, so it's just slacking for a week and a half. it was kind of nice but now i'm back and still slogging through backlog.
Anonymous
Only 45-50 percent of US people have Passports. Back in 2008 it hit a low of 30 percent.

And Hotel prices and sports tickets etc. are through the roof. So even short trips are crazy expensive.

For example I have NFL season ticket in NY. I live in DMV last decade but still have them.

Back in 2009 I sell some of my good seats for games. But when I went I sometimes see Eagles Fans, Ravens Fans, Pats Fans in my section who could just go on line buy a tickets for as cheap as 50 to 100 bucks each in a good section. Stay at Hotel by Stadium for like $125 a night or maybe if took Amtrak stay at Cheap Hotel by NYC Penn Station which used to be dumpier over their and in 2009 cheaper hotel prices. Maybe $175 a night it lucky. Be a lot of Cops, Fireman, College kids. They split room two or even four ways and could come see the game and make a weekend. Hotel and game ticket might be as little as $100-$125 person if sharing a room.

Well in 2025 my tickets for the next game I sold for $500 each. Parking in stadium now like like almost $100 for the close spots, Hotels in NYC with Tax for a Saturday Night are pushing $500 a night. Even by Stadium $300 -$350 a night. Most of my tickets go to LLCs, Business to take clients, Or rich neighborhood. I used to sell to cops at $100. I have six tickets. If a family with four kids went to the game tickets alone would be $3,000 my section

And places like Disney World the tickets since 2009 are also up crazy.

Look at Restaurant Week in DC this week. Places have a $65 dinner before tax and tip. That is the Deal .That was like $25 dollars 15 years ago.

Peoples wages have not doubled and tripled since 2009 so hence less money for vacations or even going out.
Anonymous
I think taking a week or two over the summer seems pretty average, whether its an ambitious trip or visiting grandparents. I don't think the DCUM traveling weeks every year and flying places for long weekend thing is as common.
Anonymous
I'm on vacation right now, use my PTO frequently (we have unlimited PTO and I am the boss so I push my staff to get away from work, too, I don't want burnt out people). People like to be martyrs, not me, when I am not working, I don't work.
Anonymous
I try to take vacations. I took one whole week in May outside the US and enjoyed myself. I tried earlier in August to take 4 days - was interrupted by work each of the days though not for long. I have no backup (I am an in house lawyer) so if there's a legal issue I have to work.

Meanwhile our head of HR who wasn't born in the US is currently on her 4th international trip this calendar year. Yeah, I'm a sucker.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Between getting sick in post Covid era, taking care of sick kids, dental appt and healthcare needs, my 25 days of vacation gets eaten up quickly. I am privileged that I make good money for any luxury vacation I want but it’s just hard to get to it. If I do take a stay cation, I end up cooking and cleaning and squeeze in a workout.


25 days!! I get 10 days of PTO plus only 7 holiday. Christ on a cracker.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:We travel all the time. Typically two international trips (spring break and summer) and a couple of domestic trips (NYC, NOLA, Chicago) every year. When I’m busy, I’m extremely busy (8-10 hour days for a month straight), but then I’m really slow. So we plan trips for the slow periods.


No that's not extremely busy. Extremely busy is 80-90 hours a week for a month.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I think this is more about work culture (especially if you work for older managers/leadership) than actual PTO or savings.

I like to travel and generally eke out 4-5 weeks/year, but it’s very hard. Leadership in organizations I’ve worked in tend to think that’s excessive and that people should be working more. Sigh.


I work 50 weeks a year. I do work for a 60 something year old manager.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I don’t care to go away very often. My DH goes without me. Kids are out of the house.


That's funny, i travel with friends because my husband doesn't care to go away. He's retired and I still work.
Anonymous
I have so much leave built up but the higher ups in my office don’t take vacation days so I feel pressured not to. I am not even a high earner like many on DCUM!
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