This. And PP's example is actually a prime example of toxic personality, because her toxic behavior is premised on the idea that she is "owed" due to something unfair happening to her in the past, but the people who suffer had nothing to do with that unfairness AND she's in a position of power over them. So she's got a captive audience and is just forcing them to accommodate her bruised ego because once, years ago, some other people passed her over for a promotion. This is like 90% of all toxic bosses. Their subordinates aren't people to them, but a way to work out their mental health problems without consequence. Definition of toxic. |