Neely wed 22 year olds

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Anonymous wrote:

Also, is it possible you have confused a regional university with community college? Or do you not know the difference between an associate's degree and a bachelor's degree?

Do you live under a rock? This is 2025 and dozens of community colleges offer undergraduate degrees now.

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A community college in Colorado even offers a masters degree now.

[Anonymous]

Sounds shitty and I'd be upset if this were my kid (mostly the boy, the girl sounds like a loser) but it is 100percent none of your business. And getting a dicorce from an early mulligan marriage is really no big deal without kids.

[Anonymous]

I got married at 22 to someone who id known for 2 years. We are celebrating our 17th wedding anniversary on Saturday. I am so thankful we got to grow up together, learn to navigate adulthood as a team, and have babies on our own timeline instead of feeling a rush.

I wouldn’t change anything about it. If they are both good, kindhearted people then just celebrate the fact that they found love early.

And if you can’t be happy for them, then at least keep your mouth shut.

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Anonymous wrote:Sounds shitty and I'd be upset if this were my kid (mostly the boy, the girl sounds like a loser) but it is 100percent none of your business. And getting a dicorce from an early mulligan marriage is really no big deal without kids.

She can't be labeled as a loser, just because she wasn't born in a family compatible with good looks, high intelligence, financial and relational stability of this guy's family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My cousin's kid is about to get married in few weeks. They are almost 22 and make a sweet young couple and have been together for a year.

He is quite intelligent and just graduated with a good STEM degree and nice job. She is hard working, finishing up a bachelor's from a community college and works part time but barely average student.

They also have different race, religions, socioeconomic status and cultures. He is conventionally handsome and she is rather plain. His family is intact and traditional. Hers parents are divorced and one remarried. He was coddled all his life, she wasn't privileged that way. She attended school on financial aid but has some credit debt, he was on merit scholarship and has no debt. He is a bit immature and spoiled.

His family is supportive (after some initial hesitation) paying for the wedding and helping set up an apartment and all and for sure would be supportive in future as well. I'm hopeful for them as she seems like a sensible young woman but do wonder what are the struggles of such couples in long term? Only couples I know who made it against difficult odds were bit older and knew each other for several years.

They are too young and have but been dating long enough.

It is weird that you bring up their looks (mind you an older person’s subjective opinion, not the potential partner’s opinion!).

It sounds like there are risks to both of them, but it is their decision (and strangers on DCUM get no vote!)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sounds shitty and I'd be upset if this were my kid (mostly the boy, the girl sounds like a loser) but it is 100percent none of your business. And getting a dicorce from an early mulligan marriage is really no big deal without kids.

He sounds much worse: spoiled and coddled?? No thank you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My cousin's kid is about to get married in few weeks. They are almost 22 and make a sweet young couple and have been together for a year.

He is quite intelligent and just graduated with a good STEM degree and nice job. She is hard working, finishing up a bachelor's from a community college and works part time but barely average student.

They also have different race, religions, socioeconomic status and cultures. He is conventionally handsome and she is rather plain. His family is intact and traditional. Hers parents are divorced and one remarried. He was coddled all his life, she wasn't privileged that way. She attended school on financial aid but has some credit debt, he was on merit scholarship and has no debt. He is a bit immature and spoiled.

His family is supportive (after some initial hesitation) paying for the wedding and helping set up an apartment and all and for sure would be supportive in future as well. I'm hopeful for them as she seems like a sensible young woman but do wonder what are the struggles of such couples in long term? Only couples I know who made it against difficult odds were bit older and knew each other for several years.

Only time will tell. Some make it and some don’t. If they both grew up in the U.S., then they have more in common than you think.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My cousin's kid is about to get married in few weeks. They are almost 22 and make a sweet young couple and have been together for a year.

He is quite intelligent and just graduated with a good STEM degree and nice job. She is hard working, finishing up a bachelor's from a community college and works part time but barely average student.

They also have different race, religions, socioeconomic status and cultures. He is conventionally handsome and she is rather plain. His family is intact and traditional. Hers parents are divorced and one remarried. He was coddled all his life, she wasn't privileged that way. She attended school on financial aid but has some credit debt, he was on merit scholarship and has no debt. He is a bit immature and spoiled.

His family is supportive (after some initial hesitation) paying for the wedding and helping set up an apartment and all and for sure would be supportive in future as well. I'm hopeful for them as she seems like a sensible young woman but do wonder what are the struggles of such couples in long term? Only couples I know who made it against difficult odds were bit older and knew each other for several years.

Only time will tell. Some make it and some don’t. If they both grew up in the U.S., then they have more in common than you think.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds shitty and I'd be upset if this were my kid (mostly the boy, the girl sounds like a loser) but it is 100percent none of your business. And getting a dicorce from an early mulligan marriage is really no big deal without kids.

She can't be labeled as a loser, just because she wasn't born in a family compatible with good looks, high intelligence, financial and relational stability of this guy's family.

However, by association he and his future kids would be closely exposed to issues of people in her family.

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Anonymous wrote:That's a whole pitcher of judgement you just poured over people you probably barely know. The comment about her plain appearance and divorced parents is the little umbrella on top. It seems you have spun a whole Lifetime movie around this couple who are just starting out. MYOB and write them a check.

Also, is it possible you have confused a regional university with community college? Or do you not know the difference between an associate's degree and a bachelor's degree?

🔥

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Sounds like a nice young couple who could use some support from older family. How about helping them out instead of analyzing their situation? Just wish them well and be a good example as they grow together.

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Anonymous wrote:I really don’t understand what you are asking. Your post sounds incredibly condescending. I don’t this couple needs any help from you.

+1000

No need to say anything if you cannot be nice

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My cousin's kid is about to get married in few weeks. They are almost 22 and make a sweet young couple and have been together for a year.

He is quite intelligent and just graduated with a good STEM degree and nice job. She is hard working, finishing up a bachelor's from a community college and works part time but barely average student.

They also have different race, religions, socioeconomic status and cultures. He is conventionally handsome and she is rather plain. His family is intact and traditional. Hers parents are divorced and one remarried. He was coddled all his life, she wasn't privileged that way. She attended school on financial aid but has some credit debt, he was on merit scholarship and has no debt. He is a bit immature and spoiled.

His family is supportive (after some initial hesitation) paying for the wedding and helping set up an apartment and all and for sure would be supportive in future as well. I'm hopeful for them as she seems like a sensible young woman but do wonder what are the struggles of such couples in long term? Only couples I know who made it against difficult odds were bit older and knew each other for several years.

Shut up stupid

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My cousin's kid is about to get married in few weeks. They are almost 22 and make a sweet young couple and have been together for a year.

He is quite intelligent and just graduated with a good STEM degree and nice job. She is hard working, finishing up a bachelor's from a community college and works part time but barely average student.

They also have different race, religions, socioeconomic status and cultures. He is conventionally handsome and she is rather plain. His family is intact and traditional. Hers parents are divorced and one remarried. He was coddled all his life, she wasn't privileged that way. She attended school on financial aid but has some credit debt, he was on merit scholarship and has no debt. He is a bit immature and spoiled.

His family is supportive (after some initial hesitation) paying for the wedding and helping set up an apartment and all and for sure would be supportive in future as well. I'm hopeful for them as she seems like a sensible young woman but do wonder what are the struggles of such couples in long term? Only couples I know who made it against difficult odds were bit older and knew each other for several years.

Women's looks do not matter in the slightest. It is whether the sex is free and frequent.