Why are masculine woman less accepted than feminine men

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a masculine leaning woman. I like it!
I try to be “make up wearing feminine” but it’s only about once a month and I often don’t bother.

I am with a sporty crowd so I feel accepted or neutral. No one cares. I don’t want to be around people who care Men like me well enough. I actually don’t think about my gender very much at all. I think a lot of women are like this

I have noticed that in the US many more women and girls have long hair.

I always had short hair because it's crazy curly and messy when longer, and I did because I did a lot of sports. Here, that kind of hair cut is considered a butch hair style.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I noticed that men with feminine traits are often more acceptable in society . I have even read studies that women prefer men with softer facial features , and a skinny physique with no muscles .

However woman with masculine characteristics are often compared to trans woman , and people feel disgusted by us . I’ve had many men joke that only gay men would be attracted to me , and call me a man . I take after my dad , I have an angular sharp face , deep voice , broad shoulders , narrow hips , hairy body , and massive hands /feet .

I thought I had a hormonal imbalance , and went to my doctor . I have normal estrogen , testosterone levels for a woman of my age .

When will society accept that woman come in all shapes and sizes and we all don’t look hyperfeminine .

Because they are men.

Next question

Such a stupid answer.

Disappointing, even for you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm tomboyish. I feel it's easier to be a more masculine woman than a more feminine man. Now, it's a bit harder to get male romantic attention. But still I think it's easier overall.

Absolutely think it's easier to be a tomboy-type woman than an effeminate man. Women can dress however they want, watch and play sports, have outdoor or other hobbies. Men are in a narrower box. Completely disagree with OP.

This is because traits associated with femininity are considered bad, and those associated with masculinity are good. Misogyny 101.

Traits associated with femininity are wonderful - when attached to women. When men act like women, it’s weird and gross.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am a masculine leaning woman. I like it!
I try to be “make up wearing feminine” but it’s only about once a month and I often don’t bother.

I am with a sporty crowd so I feel accepted or neutral. No one cares. I don’t want to be around people who care Men like me well enough. I actually don’t think about my gender very much at all. I think a lot of women are like this

I have noticed that in the US many more women and girls have long hair.

I always had short hair because it's crazy curly and messy when longer, and I did because I did a lot of sports. Here, that kind of hair cut is considered a butch hair style.

It's much more so in many other countries, especially Latin America, where short hair is almost forbidden by many cultural norms.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Disagree with the premise.

Feminine men get a whole bunch of crap. IMO, masculine women get less. Women in general have more leeway.

Always been that way.
Men are more protective of all women, than other men. Men are more vicious to weaker men.

Men would be raping and attacking and killing other men at higher rates than women if this were at all true. Men in general are not protective of women, they are predatory.

Ummmmmm whut? :shock:

[Anonymous]

It basically comes down to women have more freedom about things than men in general. The world is very fem-centric when it comes to permissiveness of action.

Women get to "get away" with more, to put it simply. It is what it is.

[Anonymous]

I have long hair basically because I am a taller larger woman.

The last time Trump was president, when I pulled my hair back some little teeny blonde woman with a cross around her neck freaked out when I walked into the bathroom. Told her I've been married to a man for thirty years and could call my brother to confirm I came out of the womb female. She rushed out.

They are so scared, I guess because they are rightfully afraid of men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have long hair basically because I am a taller larger woman.

The last time Trump was president, when I pulled my hair back some little teeny blonde woman with a cross around her neck freaked out when I walked into the bathroom. Told her I've been married to a man for thirty years and could call my brother to confirm I came out of the womb female. She rushed out.

They are so scared, I guess because they are rightfully afraid of men.

I make up fantasies sometimes too, but less odd ones. Give me Fabio's younger brother any day though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The patriarchy promotes and enforces male privilege? Feminine men are still men.

This right here.

They are still men doesn’t matter if they have great boobs and dressed in pink, they will still have more power, more privileges over the most masculine of women.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The patriarchy promotes and enforces male privilege? Feminine men are still men.

This right here.

They are still men doesn’t matter if they have great boobs and dressed in pink, they will still have more power, more privileges over the most masculine of women.

That doesn't track with this thread or with reality though. So incorrect.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The patriarchy promotes and enforces male privilege? Feminine men are still men.

This right here.

They are still men doesn’t matter if they have great boobs and dressed in pink, they will still have more power, more privileges over the most masculine of women.

Just no. Definitely not the case.

Men have more rigid lines when it comes to behavior. Women have more latitude.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The patriarchy promotes and enforces male privilege? Feminine men are still men.

This right here.

They are still men doesn’t matter if they have great boobs and dressed in pink, they will still have more power, more privileges over the most masculine of women.

Women are contorting their thinking to retain victim status & all the excuses to quit & rights to complain contained therein.

Despite all their anger & tough talk, many are afraid to take the reins & be accountable for their lives.