Link to the budget docs that show VT is PRIMARILY funded by taxpayers. You can’t. Because Vieginia doesn’t fund higher ed well. They need that tuition money. OOS money subsidizes VA students. |
| Today I heard if more OOS kids getting off the waitlist for VT. Any instate kids getting off? So frustrating that there is only movement for OOS. |
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DS 2024 in state business major never got off the waitlist last year.
He is thriving at one of his 5 other acceptance options. FWIW, it’s probably a rejection. Try to remember the downsides of VT: annoyingly hard to get to from DC and rural, big and you have to navigate a lot yourself, not an amazing freshman experience from most accounts, ugly architecture, and their football team/ pride and joy has been terrrible lately. PS I would do this exercise with any school that rejected my kid or waitlisted them. Try it on and see how it feels. |
Sour grapes |
I think that poster makes good points and it’s a useful exercise to have a reality check when dealing with waitlists. |
ppl DP. Yes, that is certainly the perspective an immature and disgruntled parent would take - very clear your kid wasn’t accepted. My DC has never had a hard time navigating anything at VT. The advisor she was assigned since the summer before freshman year has been excellent and helped steer her through a major change. Her freshman orientation and year was fabulous and she made some of her closest friends within her dorm and organizations related to her major. Most people report similar accounts. It’s a happy place full of smart, down to earth students. Oh, and the campus is lovely. The rural, mountainous aspect of the school is a draw, not a negative. Tons of outdoor activities to do in a gorgeous area. So sorry your kid never got to experience any of that. |
+100 So transparent. |
I graduated from VT, so it doesn't quite fit. My son does have a couple of great schools to choose from, but they will cost so much more money. It is disappointing he can't be in state. |
Unfortunately, that was no reality check. That was wishful thinking and schadenfreude on the part of a bitter parent - who is no doubt encouraging his/her kid to have that poor attitude too. DP |
I love Virginia tech. I went there and I have a kid there now and he is having a great time. However, this is a fine exercise for this scenario. If you don't get into a school, focus on the parts that maybe aren't so great and look for things to love at the schools where you did get in. No school is perfect, so you can find reasons to hate it no matter the school. Don't dwell on it, sure, but remind yourself why it's ok to not go there. |
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Sure it’s sour grapes but it’s also human nature to have to find the flaws in something that you won’t get to experience. Think of it as a coping mechanism. This is true for any school or in fact any experience in life that doesn’t get handed to you.
It also a good lesson for this forum: there is no perfect school out there for your kid. |
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DP. Same here |
I'm no VT fan, but compared to the schools my kids go to, it seems very easy to get to VT https://virginiabreeze.drpt.virginia.gov/routes/ |
I’m sorry you can’t take what I think is a fairly benign and honest assessment of the flaws of one school. It’s one perspective. Flaws can be found in every school. |