GF asked me to take her to a strip club

[Anonymous]

They are making a choice. The same way I support women making a choice to have an abortion, or to stay at home and raise their kids, or be CEOs or do whatever the F they want to do. Women have agency. Why are you taking it away from them?

The dancers are there because they can make incredible money. NoVA does not have many great clubs. However, the dancers are model-caliber beautiful if you go to Dallas or Houston.

The dancers learn to act as if they find the men paying them to dance attractive. They become very good at it since they practice on several men a night for five or six nights a week for years.

The men attending these clubs make much bigger mistakes than the dancers. These men often believe that a dancer "likes" them and they will spend hundreds (or thousands) on them when they should know that the dancer likes only their money.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She’s divorced, she thought it would be a little thrill. I don’t see why this is a big deal. Don’t go anywhere too sketch, be polite and appropriate to the dancers, and tip well. The end.

Super. Why did Op post then? Or you?

[Anonymous]

Strip clubs - I support single mothers!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We are both middle aged professionals and divorced. We kept walking by a couple of strip clubs and she asked me a few questions about my experience at strip clubs. I find them depressing and weird so I haven't been to one in many years, but I did go to bachelor parties, etc., when I was young. She kept bringing up the topic. Finally I took her. I was uncomfortable but it wasn't as bad as I expected. I noticed some other male-female couples there. Do other straight women like going to strip clubs? Why? My GF was nervous but seemed to have a good time and was very frisky when we got home.

Say no more.
I'd be back the next weekend.

[Anonymous]

She must be turned on by women. That's the only reason I can think of.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We are both middle aged professionals and divorced. We kept walking by a couple of strip clubs and she asked me a few questions about my experience at strip clubs. I find them depressing and weird so I haven't been to one in many years, but I did go to bachelor parties, etc., when I was young. She kept bringing up the topic. Finally I took her. I was uncomfortable but it wasn't as bad as I expected. I noticed some other male-female couples there. Do other straight women like going to strip clubs? Why? My GF was nervous but seemed to have a good time and was very frisky when we got home.

Most women have a little bit of a lesbian streak in them. This gives them an outlet, with their male partner present so they don't feel threatened. Also, many men have a menage fantasy, so this is like a PG rated version of it.

Women are also competitive. We like to see what other women turn our man on and try to emulate their features or style. Seeing which strippers you like is data-mining your desires.

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Anonymous wrote:We are both middle aged professionals and divorced. We kept walking by a couple of strip clubs and she asked me a few questions about my experience at strip clubs. I find them depressing and weird so I haven't been to one in many years, but I did go to bachelor parties, etc., when I was young. She kept bringing up the topic. Finally I took her. I was uncomfortable but it wasn't as bad as I expected. I noticed some other male-female couples there. Do other straight women like going to strip clubs? Why? My GF was nervous but seemed to have a good time and was very frisky when we got home.

I don't see why any woman would want to see other women getting objectified by creeps for few bucks? How is any different than propagating child labor by buying cheap goods?

Because women dancing on stage is a choice they make. They can choose how to use their bodies. It's not only when it comes to abortion. The fact that you can't see the difference between adults in children tells me you're a lunatic.

Many of these women are trafficked.

The trafficking happens in the "massage" places, not the strip clubs.
Now many dancers are drug addicts, due to the depressing nature of the work and the odd hours, they often turn to dopamine releasing drugs such as stimulants.

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Anonymous wrote:We are both middle aged professionals and divorced. We kept walking by a couple of strip clubs and she asked me a few questions about my experience at strip clubs. I find them depressing and weird so I haven't been to one in many years, but I did go to bachelor parties, etc., when I was young. She kept bringing up the topic. Finally I took her. I was uncomfortable but it wasn't as bad as I expected. I noticed some other male-female couples there. Do other straight women like going to strip clubs? Why? My GF was nervous but seemed to have a good time and was very frisky when we got home.

I don't see why any woman would want to see other women getting objectified by creeps for few bucks? How is any different than propagating child labor by buying cheap goods?

Man I wish it was a few bucks. I can't afford to go but a couple times a year these days.

Imagine, family men throwing their money and time on women, liquor, drugs and gambling.

I don't drink or do drugs or gamble. My wife and I both like a strip club visit and we both go. We talk about how much money we spend and make sure it's in the budget before we go. It's expensive, but it could be worse. I could have bought a boat.

[Anonymous]

I only support the women who are stripping their way through med school. All others, I close my eyes until their set is done.

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Anonymous wrote:I only support the women who are stripping their way through med school. All others, I close my eyes until their set is done.

That's when they lift your wallet.

[Anonymous]

I’m curious if anyone goes to that strip climb on K street near the st Regis. I walk by it twice a day and never see anyone going in or out although sometimes I see the bouncer and sometimes I see dancers going in. It seems surprisingly to me they can run a business with that little traffic. They often have signs out about sales. I’m a little irked we lost half the sandwich shops during the pandemic yet that place miraculously stays open.

[Anonymous]

My buddy's girlfriend used to work at a strip club. The stories were crazy. Lots of addicts. Lots of drama. My buddy's girlfriend eventually broke up with him and started dating another dancer.

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Anonymous wrote:We are both middle aged professionals and divorced. We kept walking by a couple of strip clubs and she asked me a few questions about my experience at strip clubs. I find them depressing and weird so I haven't been to one in many years, but I did go to bachelor parties, etc., when I was young. She kept bringing up the topic. Finally I took her. I was uncomfortable but it wasn't as bad as I expected. I noticed some other male-female couples there. Do other straight women like going to strip clubs? Why? My GF was nervous but seemed to have a good time and was very frisky when we got home.

I don't see why any woman would want to see other women getting objectified by creeps for few bucks? How is any different than propagating child labor by buying cheap goods?

Because women dancing on stage is a choice they make. They can choose how to use their bodies. It's not only when it comes to abortion. The fact that you can't see the difference between adults in children tells me you're a lunatic.

Many of these women are trafficked.

You don’t know that.

[Anonymous]

Depressing and pathetic - for the guys who need to do this to get off, and sad for the dancers who feel selling their body is the only way they can make a living.

And that's if it's not awful and they're being forced/trafficked/pimped

[Anonymous]

I’m just having fun, on stage in my heels, it’s where I belong
Down at the Pink Pony Club!