Great comment Ugh. I think I’ll skip it. For this case, I feel like I read and watched everything in real time. And analyzed it with my friends in real time. I even have public policy goals that were crystallized back then. The police video and transcripts are a must see |
This. Every girl should watch that video. So much to learn from every person on that video |
Every girl should learn that presentation, when communicating, is everything.
SOMETIMES It’s better not to talk to people until one is composed. |
Why comment then? I don't get it |
Ugh, bad message. How about every man should learn not to abuse women? |
The cop had enormous baggage because he projected his wife onto her, he even said so several times! Is his bias her fault as well? As a woman, if I saw a young woman upset like this and a way too calm man, I would immediately think he is the dangerous one. |
Exactly! So gross. And he thought he was being super supportive and enlightened when it was really just "crazy woman go take a shower." |
The b roll footage from the blog was so so chilling. |
Can anyone explain what she was doing from high school to age 22? Did she ever attempt college? Does it reveal she was a poor student in high school? It’s weird how such a cute girl seemed so aimless and got mixed up with this loser boy. Nearly all girls her age at least attempt college. At any local university she would have had ambitious boys trying to date her, not losers going nowhere in life. |
She got into SUNY Fredonia for art but didn't go. She moved to FL with her loser and worked at Publix. |
Flying monkey cops manipulated by a narcissistic murdering liar. |
Oh, she and the boy went to the same high school? Her parents didn’t care that she was moving to Florida for a dead-end job? Did the boy ever work or try college? |
It doesn't appear either of them ever went to college even for a bit. He was older than she was by a few grades I believe. I'm not sure why her parents didn't try to make her go to college or stop her from moving to FL with a boy she barely knew (at that point.)
They all seem like great parents (both parents and step parents) they just seem a little hands off. To hear them describe it, they all expressed shock that she wanted to move to FL but never told her she shouldn't go. |
The main cop was an abuser himself |
They met in high school but started dating later. Her not going to college wasn't linked to him I think, at least not at first. She lived in NC first and was a waitress during that time. I am sure her parents (she has two sets, remarriage and everyone gets along) cared very much and still do. They do domestic violence advocacy now. I have no idea what he did post- high school. |