38 and Online dating, I must be ugly right?

[Anonymous]

What lower SES has to do with ugly and fat? Uf you are high SES, algorithm would find high SES or vice versa.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Goodness! I am matched with so many unattractive, out of shape, lower SES, men.

Is this because the algorithm has determined I am an ugly woman?

No, it is because you are 38 years old.

[Anonymous]

I think men only go up to women who are flawless dolls. Think Miss Universe or victorias secret.

The old notion of being approachable and smiling to attract a husband is long gone. Guys these days are focused on getting Teslas and making lots of money

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Goodness! I am matched with so many unattractive, out of shape, lower SES, men.

Is this because the algorithm has determined I am an ugly woman?

No, it is because you are 38 years old.

Precisely. That's why I always filter out guys 40+. I don't even bother looking at their profiles

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think men only go up to women who are flawless dolls. Think Miss Universe or victorias secret.

The old notion of being approachable and smiling to attract a husband is long gone. Guys these days are focused on getting Teslas and making lots of money

Flawless dolls are just good to f**k and dispose. If you want a wife go for an average of above average looking woman who is very kind. These women are not stuck up in general and they are very underrated. The thing is a woman can make herself more beautiful if that's her goal. A flawless doll can't buy a personality of it costs $1. Anyways it's been my experience. When I was looking for arm candy to f**k for awhile I looked for a flawless doll. When I was ready to settle I looked for an average to above average woman and it worked out well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think men only go up to women who are flawless dolls. Think Miss Universe or victorias secret.

The old notion of being approachable and smiling to attract a husband is long gone. Guys these days are focused on getting Teslas and making lots of money

Flawless dolls are just good to f**k and dispose. If you want a wife go for an average of above average looking woman who is very kind. These women are not stuck up in general and they are very underrated. The thing is a woman can make herself more beautiful if that's her goal. A flawless doll can't buy a personality of it costs $1. Anyways it's been my experience. When I was looking for arm candy to f**k for awhile I looked for a flawless doll. When I was ready to settle I looked for an average to above average woman and it worked out well.

I understand you’re trying to give advice here and be helpful but talking about women this way is not cool. Imagine how your current wife would knowing you went for because she is average just so you would have a good person raising your kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think men only go up to women who are flawless dolls. Think Miss Universe or victorias secret.

The old notion of being approachable and smiling to attract a husband is long gone. Guys these days are focused on getting Teslas and making lots of money

Flawless dolls are just good to f**k and dispose. If you want a wife go for an average of above average looking woman who is very kind. These women are not stuck up in general and they are very underrated. The thing is a woman can make herself more beautiful if that's her goal. A flawless doll can't buy a personality of it costs $1. Anyways it's been my experience. When I was looking for arm candy to f**k for awhile I looked for a flawless doll. When I was ready to settle I looked for an average to above average woman and it worked out well.

I understand you’re trying to give advice here and be helpful but talking about women this way is not cool. Imagine how your current wife would knowing you went for because she is average just so you would have a good person raising your kids.

+1. I think would make your wife sad to know this is how you think of her.