
Have you ever been there? |
It's been like this since I applied to college. It had a rich kid mentality then. It is extremely expensive. I have a kid who had a 1400 SAT and top 15% and they gave him $30k a year in scholarships - i.e., a lot! For a great but not elite kid. My point is, kids that are very middle of their class can get in, they just have to pay the $80-$90k in tuition with no scholarship. Who is going to pay that? People who have excessive wealth will. So, it is a very enviable place for a middle of the pack rich kid to go with his peers. |
I know a lot of happy families who sent their kids to SMU. It is a beautiful school with great future work connections. It is wealthy so caveat would be that it is not a school if your family is on super tight budget. If I had money and had to decide between a school that is in a cold environment and high stress and SMU then I would easily say SMU. |
I suspect your kid is having a panic moment and is looking for a sure thing. It's very hard to play the long game with college admissions and be the kid that doesn't know there college until March/April. I'd encourage him to keep his options open and would definitely not rush into a SMU ED2. If he was a potential candidate for Dartmouth, there will be other stronger options and he can probably get into SMU RD. |
100% |
That is really strange. Look at some other colleges. It’s too far away, too religiously conservative. And it’s Texas. No one will take him seriously. |
SMU is fine. Gorgeous campus. Cox is solid. The kids are wealthy and connected. He will have no problem landing a great job especially in TX. It is very conservative the kids come from very Christian families even if they don’t practice it themselves. His views will definitely be influenced by the school. If he is already conservative and a little snotty he will become more so. That’s not a dig. It’s reality. |
Yeah, it's fine. Not sure why people think it's some conservative land. Highland park, where SMU resides, is very conservative, because the city is the wealthiest in Texas. Dallas is a majority minority city that is quite liberal. It has a pretty substantial gayborhood and just doesn't have that conservative of a vibe either. Now, if you are talking about your company trip to Irving-yeah, that place is conservative. |
I was waiting for someone to say that! (I did not have it in me to be the a$$hole this morning!) |
Dallas is a tiny dot of blue surrounded by a sea of red. The people around SMU in Highland or University Park (Park Cities) are not 'very liberal' which is where kids spend most of their time. |
Yep, just a super small third largest city in Texas. |
Dallas may have voted blue but everyone who commutes in and works in Dallas voted red red red |
Exactly. People are pulling OPs leg trying to convince her SMU or Dallas in general are very liberal. |
People in DCUM are so paranoid, it's impressive. They mostly live in wealthy Virginia suburbs and want to tell others what liberal looks like ![]() |
I'm the one saying it's not "very liberal". I'm moving exactly there in a few months, have spent a lot of time there, previously lived in Texas and don't live in Virginia for what it's worth. But if living in a diverse city or seeking a diverse campus was a priority, SMU would not be a top choice. |