If your husband voted for Trump. are you leaving him?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am from Tanzania and Africans are in general very sexist. However that a lot of American men have said about women this election cycle frankly rivals the type of sexist thoughts I saw back home.

If you were being honest you would have also heard talk about toxic masculinity, what’s wrong with men, just generally a lot of negative talk about men. Or did you miss all that?

[Anonymous]

I lied to my wife. I voted Trump! She is none the wiser! LOL!😂

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m already in process of divorcing mine who is a radical MAGA POS for different reasons.

Unfortunately it appears that over 1/2 the US voted for this narcissistic and racist felon. This is the first time I feel sick to my stomach over a presidential outcome. Things in the US are going to drastically change, and I believe this is going to be detrimental to anyone who is a POC.

I love your hysterics!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would never have married someone who would ever vote for Trump in the first place.

I hear what you're saying, but I also think people didn't comprehend the notion of someone like Trump before he appeared on the scene. If you're saying you never would have married someone who voted for a Republican then that's different.

I didn't vote for Trump and neither did my husband (either time), but I find the hysterical people like you to be annoying. You're actually part of the problem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I lied to my wife. I voted Trump! She is none the wiser! LOL!😂

Do you think your wife would leave you over this if she knew the truth? If so are you proud your life is built on a lie? Do you think this is different than tricking her into marriage by lying about something that is material to her (eg willingness to have children, religion, etc.)?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Never would've married someone with even an inkling of "values" that aligned with Trump. All of you who have and don't agree or voted for Harris yourselves, you're enabling this.

All you're doing is creating a bigger divide. Congrats I guess. I am a registered republican who has voted purely for democrats since 2016 but it's insane to me that you don't see that you are also enabling this current situation.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I would never have married someone who would ever vote for Trump in the first place.

I hear what you're saying, but I also think people didn't comprehend the notion of someone like Trump before he appeared on the scene. If you're saying you never would have married someone who voted for a Republican then that's different.

I didn't vote for Trump and neither did my husband (either time), but I find the hysterical people like you to be annoying. You're actually part of the problem.

Disagree. I would have married a republican but not someone who would become a Trumper. There is a level of cruelty, stupidity and ignorance that cannot be tolerated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would have the last two times but not this one. The democrats could not have botched this more.

+1000

Democrats - direct your ire where it is due. And hint, it's not at the Trump voters.

[Anonymous]

Maybe next time don’t skip the Primary Election process.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I would never have married someone who would ever vote for Trump in the first place.

I hear what you're saying, but I also think people didn't comprehend the notion of someone like Trump before he appeared on the scene. If you're saying you never would have married someone who voted for a Republican then that's different.

I didn't vote for Trump and neither did my husband (either time), but I find the hysterical people like you to be annoying. You're actually part of the problem.

Disagree. I would have married a republican but not someone who would become a Trumper. There is a level of cruelty, stupidity and ignorance that cannot be tolerated.

You disagree that your attitude is part of the problem? Because you're wrong.

I think your over-simplification of Trump voters leaves a lot to be desired. 95% of the people I know (and I'm counting friends from my K-12 through today) voted for Harris, but I understand why the 5% I know voted for Trump. And they're not cruel, stupid, or ignorant. Failing to appreciate how others feel is what is contributing to our current situation. So, well done.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am from Tanzania and Africans are in general very sexist. However that a lot of American men have said about women this election cycle frankly rivals the type of sexist thoughts I saw back home.

If you were being honest you would have also heard talk about toxic masculinity, what’s wrong with men, just generally a lot of negative talk about men. Or did you miss all that?

In the real word I don't think women talk about men this way. First, what is masculinity? There is no standard definition. What makes a man masculine? What makes a woman feminine? These aren't things that the regular person spends their day thinking about. As a result these terms are hijacked by people who make a business out of it. They make money out of issues that don't have clear definition and with the speed at which fringe information travels irrelevant drifters find a medium to make money.

Mt Trump won because in America perception is everything. We are a country where people always try to sell you stuff. We consume a lot. If you can sell perception of strength, power, hope and you are a good salesman you are going to be successful.

[Anonymous]

I never thought I married someone who would support someone like Trump but I learned I was wrong in 2016. It sickened me. Our marriage has suffered since. There’s a huge list of topics we cannot discuss. He swore he didn’t vote for him in 2020 so I tried to move on from it and focus on the good. Recently it became clear he was supporting Trump. I haven’t seen him since the results came in. I’ve thought about leaving but I can’t afford to. I’m really stuck. It’s not that he’s a republican that bothers me. We can have political differences. It’s that he supports a man who wants to take away all my rights and spew’s hate and has no respect for the laws of this country. I feel really unsafe and worried for the future and I can’t discuss that with the one person I should be able to depend on for support.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No, are you crazy?

No, I think this is the most sane decision I have ever made.

Then you are crazy. Because he could have lied to you.

Yeah it would be totally fine and a perfectly good marriage still if he would just LIE about who he’s voting for.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a liberal, a Trump win is the medicine we need as a cure for all the DEI, ESG and other nonsense.

I did not vote for him, but happy with the results.

Why didn’t the previous Trump presidency do that then? Why would we have better results now?

[Anonymous]

Not married, but I know those who voted him in will regret their decision for decades if he does even a quarter of the things he says he will. No need to divorce, just watch.