Men- my husband says my whole energy is sexy

[Anonymous]

Is this a weird humblebrag? Or are you one of those daft people who all they have going for them is sex appeal?

Oh wait, it WAS A brag!

You’re just sooooo sexy OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How long have you been married. That’s very sweet actually. I’m assuming he meant it in a nice way.

16 years. We have sex all the time. He assumes I am trying to be sexy and turn him on but I am not. I am just being myself.

Sounds like he is pressuring you for even more sex.

So? Sex is the most important part of life.

[Anonymous]

Your DH is into you, congrats.

[Anonymous]

He's saying you act like you are desperate for attention all the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:99% of the women reading this thread are wishing their husbands said this about them (myself included).

No, most are wishing their husband stopped pawing at them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Blatant humble brag, but I approve

There was nothing humble about it.

It a VBA tho

Visual Basic for Applications?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think he is saying this because he wants more sex. My DH says the same thing to me all the time and we’ve had many conversations about this. He doesn’t feel he gets enough and wants me to initiate more and he thinks by telling me I am so sexy in all that I do that’s going to make me desire him more. Just telling me I’m so sexy doesn’t do it for me though. For me, it’s a lack of caring in the little things and day to day that turn me off sex wise. If he’s kind, helps with the house and kids and tidies up after himself then I feel attracted to him. He will do this for a little while but then goes right back to his ways where I’m doing everything in the house, exhausted and then expects me to be so interested and aroused. We have sex a few time a week but I feel like if he was a better partner I would be more into him. Both of us work but all he does is work and rarely pitches in w the kids and responsibilities. I’m always the one planning for the kids and us, taking care of bills, even fixing things around the house. I have to constantly beg for a lightbulb to be changed. So these things contribute to my feeling angry and resentful when I should instead feel attracted to him. Just my 2 cents.

Tell him to change over to LEDs.

Several times per week is already more than most couples.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think he is saying this because he wants more sex. My DH says the same thing to me all the time and we’ve had many conversations about this. He doesn’t feel he gets enough and wants me to initiate more and he thinks by telling me I am so sexy in all that I do that’s going to make me desire him more. Just telling me I’m so sexy doesn’t do it for me though. For me, it’s a lack of caring in the little things and day to day that turn me off sex wise. If he’s kind, helps with the house and kids and tidies up after himself then I feel attracted to him. He will do this for a little while but then goes right back to his ways where I’m doing everything in the house, exhausted and then expects me to be so interested and aroused. We have sex a few time a week but I feel like if he was a better partner I would be more into him. Both of us work but all he does is work and rarely pitches in w the kids and responsibilities. I’m always the one planning for the kids and us, taking care of bills, even fixing things around the house. I have to constantly beg for a lightbulb to be changed. So these things contribute to my feeling angry and resentful when I should instead feel attracted to him. Just my 2 cents.

Tell him to change over to LEDs.

Several times per week is already more than most couples.

Is this referring to having sex or changing light bulbs?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, is English your first language? Because I'm wondering how you don't understand.

He likes it when she shows off for strangers.

[Anonymous]

Oh pleeeze. Men heap on flattery. I don't put too much stock in it. Typically, they are doing it for some secondary gain.

It's like when you travel to Italy, the men are calling you bella and telling you how gorgeous you are. But they say it to every tourist woman!

My ex would tell me how beautiful and sexy I was all the time. And how gross frumpy sweaty and stinky his ex-W was. It came out during one of our arguments that he tells every woman he dates that he thought "she's the most beautiful sexy woman" at least during the actual time of the relationship.

[Anonymous]

humble brag. full stop. must have needed extra attention today.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s like a vibe you give off. There nothing to explain. He thinks of sex when he sees or interacts with you. It’s great.

I’ve been told this by every man I’ve been with. Keep doing whatever you’re doing.

I give off this vibe, too, but would love not to. I'm a widow, and I've been thinking a lot about what I want in my next partner. It's NOT the Lotharios I'm attracting.

[Anonymous]

It's all the botox op injects

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's all the botox op injects

Girl please Botox just freezes you. Fillers give you sex appeal

[Anonymous]

It sounds a bit smarmy to me. I would bet he’s a player and would look for evidence of cheating. Hes trying too hard and covering for something,