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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think he is saying this because he wants more sex. My DH says the same thing to me all the time and we’ve had many conversations about this. He doesn’t feel he gets enough and wants me to initiate more and he thinks by telling me I am so sexy in all that I do that’s going to make me desire him more. Just telling me I’m so sexy doesn’t do it for me though. For me, it’s a lack of caring in the little things and day to day that turn me off sex wise. If he’s kind, helps with the house and kids and tidies up after himself then I feel attracted to him. He will do this for a little while but then goes right back to his ways where I’m doing everything in the house, exhausted and then expects me to be so interested and aroused. We have sex a few time a week but I feel like if he was a better partner I would be more into him. Both of us work but all he does is work and rarely pitches in w the kids and responsibilities. I’m always the one planning for the kids and us, taking care of bills, even fixing things around the house. I have to constantly beg for a lightbulb to be changed. So these things contribute to my feeling angry and resentful when I should instead feel attracted to him. Just my 2 cents.[/quote] Tell him to change over to LEDs. Several times per week is already more than most couples. [/quote] Is this referring to having sex or changing light bulbs? [/quote]
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