If you had an amazing wedding, but then divorced, is the wedding (day) still a fond memory?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I've heard that some people know on their wedding day that they're making a mistake. If that happened to you, how do you remember it?

That’s me. I don’t remember it: I never think about it as if it never happened.

My wedding day was one of the best days of my life. I was very much in love with the woman I married. My ex W has some mental health issues (extreme anxiety), and they came up a little, but overall it is was amazing. We were mostly happy until we had a kid.

One thing that was strange was sex on our wedding night. She was really dry. I thought she was just tired and said we should wait for morning, but she wanted to do it and said we needed to do it. It was loving but painful for both of us. Before we were married, we had sex a couple of times a week, which was sufficient if not ideal. Afterwards the frequency dropped, but wasn't awful. After she became pregnant, she lost almost all sexual interest. Maybe we had sex once a month if I was lucky. After a few years we stopped completely. I have no desire to have sex with a woman who isn't attracted to men and she was just not attracted to me. Our wedding day was great but I do get very sad thinking about it.

I think fear of being alone actually was an aphrodisiac for her. When we divorced, she said she had no sex drive, but I'm pretty sure she has one as a single woman, even after menopause.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've heard that some people know on their wedding day that they're making a mistake. If that happened to you, how do you remember it?

That’s me. I don’t remember it: I never think about it as if it never happened.

My wedding day was one of the best days of my life. I was very much in love with the woman I married. My ex W has some mental health issues (extreme anxiety), and they came up a little, but overall it is was amazing. We were mostly happy until we had a kid.

One thing that was strange was sex on our wedding night. She was really dry. I thought she was just tired and said we should wait for morning, but she wanted to do it and said we needed to do it. It was loving but painful for both of us. Before we were married, we had sex a couple of times a week, which was sufficient if not ideal. Afterwards the frequency dropped, but wasn't awful. After she became pregnant, she lost almost all sexual interest. Maybe we had sex once a month if I was lucky. After a few years we stopped completely. I have no desire to have sex with a woman who isn't attracted to men and she was just not attracted to me. Our wedding day was great but I do get very sad thinking about it.

I think fear of being alone actually was an aphrodisiac for her. When we divorced, she said she had no sex drive, but I'm pretty sure she has one as a single woman, even after menopause.

PP here. We did not have sex on our wedding night or honeymoon. We maybe did 10 times in the first three years and never again for the next 7. It was a bad match and he had low T.

[Anonymous]

People don’t remember their weddings that much after few years specially after children.