A big part of making a HS team is being known. Known to the coach but also known to the upperclassman and especially captains. Coaches lean heavily on their trusted varsity players to decide who to pick. The way to become known is to attend offseason workouts. Your son should talk to the coach to find out. Get to know the other players on the team. Unless your kid is an obvious standout, it's very hard to make enough of an impression just from a few days of tryouts. |
| Why play on the high school team? It doesn't help with recruiting and only increases the risk of injuries. Focus on academics and aim to get on the highest team with his club. |
Didn’t hurt me. But there’s something wrong with you. |
Recruiting? A kid that doesn't make their JV team sophomore year isn't getting recruited to play in college. Not everyone has that goal. Some just like to play soccer. |
Playing for a school team can be a huge part of a kids identity, confidence, and social experience in high school. And it can be a lot of fun! Most kids who play HS sports have no plans to play in college. |
| Wish the high end kids would just play ECNL, GA, MLS Next and leave HS soccer to the regular kids. Everyone would be better off. Too much wear and tear for the high end kids. They certainly don’t do this with the academies in Europe. |
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Based on the comments in this forum, it seems a kid playing in HS is more important to parents identity than the kids. The training is way too concentrated on running and strength and the games are poor quality. Can't see why it's so much fun (over club soccer) |
| I think a lot of this depends on whether or not there's a Freshman team. |
Different lanes for different kids. I have a daughter starting HS next year and one who has graduated from HS. The older one chose what she wanted to do in HS for activities. We won't tell our younger one what to do. We let them make their own decisions about activities. Just get good grades. You sound like a parent overly concerned about your kids not playing HS sports. |
At our private the best play solely MLSNext by Junior year. HS is awful, both the coaching and competition. Level of play awful. |
Yeah and if there is a douche circle it becomes like sorority rush instead of sports tryout. Our private is the absolute worst, such nepotism and butt blowing. |
| Other problem at some schools, the Club coach coaching high school favors kid from club team and known at his club. |
| Its rare. Usually a keeper. Most HS coaches suck. And no most HS teams are not loaded with ECNL, MLSnxt or GA players. So generally its the coach knowing kid from the early workouts they do or the kid being insanely good. In fact are many ECNL kids and MLS Next kids that dont play as much as coaches favs. |
| When there's over 100 kids trying out for 25 high school spots, the first cuts are usually over speed. That's what your kid should work on, so they are ready for tryouts next year |