Single 35 years old making 500k a year

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op here, I travelled for a month and it was fun but it still felt lonely. I have hobbies but they only keep me distracted. I have girls that are interested in me but I compare them to my ex.

To the person saying I haven’t struggled my whole life, I actually grew up with very little and my parents both worked while my brother raised me.

I worked my ass off my whole life to get to where I’m at now. In fact because of many poor life decisions, I am single now and make less money than I should be (1 million a year but more risk and I was inexperienced with starting a business)

I want to start a family but I am struggling to find a girl that has both looks and personality.

In my friend circle I have two close friends who make the same or more than me. This is the reality of today’s economy but people just aren’t aware…

There are people who "work their ass off" and are destroyed by injury, disability, mental illness, horrifying life events, and things you couldn't imagine in your privileged, distorted bubble where you and your two close friends think you live in reality.

I'm the other 35-year old who called you out for never having struggled. Your reply confirms my assessment.

I have worked my ass off my whole life as well, but faced horrors and evils that would clearly k*ll you and destroy your fragile cocoon. I have to attend to my mental health every day on top of facing responsibilities and daily life.

The reality of today's economy is that billionaires and UMC a**holes (like you) are not paying their fair share of taxes, and there are more and more homeless people dying and starving on the streets of our most prestigious cities. The reality of today's economy is that able-bodied privilege is destroying equally qualified and talented people in the work force who are chronically ill or disabled, a fact which neither Kamala Harris nor Donald Trump seem to care about.

You've done nothing special to get what you have and if losing an LTR could make you have a sad puppy moment online, it's very clear you've never faced real life.

DP.

Notice how she immediately went on the attack when she realized OP is a man?

Yeah, this whole rant is totally bizarre. How is someone working hard at a job where the wage is set by competitive market forces destroying anything? He’s just living his life. It’s not like he even sets the tax rates, and he can’t even vote to change anything because either of the major two choices are apparently flawed.

By contributing to the economy, he’s making it more likely that people who are chronically ill or disabled will find work, since there are more opportunities for them in rich places rather than poor ones.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here, I travelled for a month and it was fun but it still felt lonely. I have hobbies but they only keep me distracted. I have girls that are interested in me but I compare them to my ex.

To the person saying I haven’t struggled my whole life, I actually grew up with very little and my parents both worked while my brother raised me.

I worked my ass off my whole life to get to where I’m at now. In fact because of many poor life decisions, I am single now and make less money than I should be (1 million a year but more risk and I was inexperienced with starting a business)

I want to start a family but I am struggling to find a girl that has both looks and personality.

In my friend circle I have two close friends who make the same or more than me. This is the reality of today’s economy but people just aren’t aware…

There are people who "work their ass off" and are destroyed by injury, disability, mental illness, horrifying life events, and things you couldn't imagine in your privileged, distorted bubble where you and your two close friends think you live in reality.

I'm the other 35-year old who called you out for never having struggled. Your reply confirms my assessment.

I have worked my ass off my whole life as well, but faced horrors and evils that would clearly k*ll you and destroy your fragile cocoon. I have to attend to my mental health every day on top of facing responsibilities and daily life.

The reality of today's economy is that billionaires and UMC a**holes (like you) are not paying their fair share of taxes, and there are more and more homeless people dying and starving on the streets of our most prestigious cities. The reality of today's economy is that able-bodied privilege is destroying equally qualified and talented people in the work force who are chronically ill or disabled, a fact which neither Kamala Harris nor Donald Trump seem to care about.

You've done nothing special to get what you have and if losing an LTR could make you have a sad puppy moment online, it's very clear you've never faced real life.

DP.

Notice how she immediately went on the attack when she realized OP is a man?

Yeah, this whole rant is totally bizarre. How is someone working hard at a job where the wage is set by competitive market forces destroying anything? He’s just living his life. It’s not like he even sets the tax rates, and he can’t even vote to change anything because either of the major two choices are apparently flawed.

By contributing to the economy, he’s making it more likely that people who are chronically ill or disabled will find work, since there are more opportunities for them in rich places rather than poor ones.

DP, but you sound brainwashed like most neoliberals I know.

[Anonymous]

Why is making $500K something that defines you.

What other character traits do you have? Maybe you should focus on those. You sound like a jerk.

[Anonymous]

Find a cause that appeals to you and work to do some good. You can also donate money, but the best impact for you is actually working to help something be better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why is making $500K something that defines you.

What other character traits do you have? Maybe you should focus on those. You sound like a jerk.

Once I found out op is a man, I totally agree. He’s a jerk!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why is making $500K something that defines you.

What other character traits do you have? Maybe you should focus on those. You sound like a jerk.

+1. If this is even real. OP's obsession with his income is a sign that he has serious issues and needs to seek therapy. And I still don't buy that this is real.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here, where can I find these travel groups?

I'm the PP who mentioned the travel group. Yes, you can google it.

My friend was single, and made a lot. She was able to retire early.

She met both of her ltr by volunteering at places like Habitat for Humanity. She didn't do it to meet people; she genuinely enjoys volunteering for them. Her company organizes volunteering events like this. I don't know if yours does, but you can always volunteer individually.

She also loves to go hiking and kayaking, camping, etc.. But, she's too old for you. LOL.

Point is, if you want to meet people who enjoy the things you do, you should join groups that do those things. I don't know where you are, but DC has a DC area meetup groups for all sorts of things. I went to one, and it was mostly young single people (I am neither young nor single).

GL to you.

[Anonymous]

Volunteer! hospital, temple/church group...etc. Everything will fall into place soon.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here, where can I find these travel groups?

GAdventures
MuchBetterAdventures
FTLO
Flashpack
Intrepid

And so on….

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here, where can I find these travel groups?

GAdventures
MuchBetterAdventures
FTLO
Flashpack
Intrepid

And so on….

I recieve emails from my college about travel groups and tours. At least it would be a way to possibly reconnect with other alums from your undergraduate institution?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hi All,
I recently got out of a long term relationship and am struggling a little bit to figure out what I should be doing with my life right now.

I work fully remote and make 500k a year. I have no debt and a good amount of savings. However I find myself lost and unhappy. Should I go to therapy?

What would you do in my shoes?

Obvious Troll is obvious.


C- effort at best.

[Anonymous]

Rescue a dog. Or two. Or three. Bond with them, care for them, enjoy their companionship.

[Anonymous]

You’re not over your ex - you just broke up. Give it time!

Plus - a personal pet peeve of mine and feel free to ignore it, but in their 30s, it’s WOMEN, not “girls.”