Single 35 years old making 500k a year
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Anonymous
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Hi All,
I recently got out of a long term relationship and am struggling a little bit to figure out what I should be doing with my life right now. I work fully remote and make 500k a year. I have no debt and a good amount of savings. However I find myself lost and unhappy. Should I go to therapy? What would you do in my shoes? |
Anonymous
| I mean...what kind of question is this? These details tell us nothing about you as a person. |
Anonymous
| Travel for a few weeks? Recharge? Meditate? Get a therapist? |
Anonymous
TRAVEL!!! There are travel groups that you can join if you don't want to go alone. My friend does this all the time. She's been everywhere. And get a hobby; join a gym. |
Anonymous
| Op here, where can I find these travel groups? |
Anonymous
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I'd learn a language, learn to cook better, learn to play piano/read music/sing, take yoga and pilates on altenating days, see more Broadway plays, and sponsor someone in some way that will materially improve their life.
Not a huge fan of traveling but would take a trip to NYC and stay in a nice hotel and eat at nice restaurants. |
Anonymous
| How many people are genuinely salaried with these incomes? Normally you would be on a very high up position or self employed. Can you not make decisions for yourself? |
Anonymous
You're really that helpless? |
Anonymous
| Are you serious? I always have trouble believing single, childless people find this site. If you’re for real, go do therapy. You’ll meet a better partner if you’re in a good place. |
Anonymous
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I'm 35 years old and recently lost my job and don't know how I'll make my rent. I'm scrappy and getting s**t together while also working on my mental health daily. Including the loss of my Love Of My Life.
Can't believe someone who supposedly makes 500k a year is such an incompetent child. You've never struggled, have you? |
Anonymous
Dude! You should first marry a trophy wife, then take her on that trip with you. Women around here want the “6666,” but you, my friend, can skip the first three sixes if you are banking $500k a year. |
Anonymous
Every woman is super attracted to a man with a HUGE . . . bank account. |
Anonymous
| You seem too fixated on your salary. Get a hobby, volunteer, travel |
Anonymous
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Op here, I travelled for a month and it was fun but it still felt lonely. I have hobbies but they only keep me distracted. I have girls that are interested in me but I compare them to my ex.
To the person saying I haven’t struggled my whole life, I actually grew up with very little and my parents both worked while my brother raised me. I worked my ass off my whole life to get to where I’m at now. In fact because of many poor life decisions, I am single now and make less money than I should be (1 million a year but more risk and I was inexperienced with starting a business) I want to start a family but I am struggling to find a girl that has both looks and personality. In my friend circle I have two close friends who make the same or more than me. This is the reality of today’s economy but people just aren’t aware… |
Anonymous
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Ha. I immediately thought you were a woman, because I was in a similar boat at that age.
Joke on me! |