Is it flirting?

[Anonymous]

I personally would not consider it flirting but some men may take it that way.

I once told a guy that I liked the color of his car because I genuinely did.

Then my boyfriend (at the time) accused me of flirting. 🧐🤨

Men + women have very different thought processes it seems……

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:it's noisy.

Not if you ask quietly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I personally would not consider it flirting but some men may take it that way.

I once told a guy that I liked the color of his car because I genuinely did.

Then my boyfriend (at the time) accused me of flirting. 🧐🤨

Men + women have very different thought processes it seems……

+1

Haha so true

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread is SO depressing! No wonder the US has a loneliness epidemic

Agreed. It's really sad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I personally would not consider it flirting but some men may take it that way.

I once told a guy that I liked the color of his car because I genuinely did.

Then my boyfriend (at the time) accused me of flirting. 🧐🤨

Men + women have very different thought processes it seems……

+1

Define “men” and “women”
Do I need to think this certain way to be classified into that category?
Just curious.

Haha so true

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:it's noisy.

Not if you ask quietly.

[Anonymous]

If a woman initiates a conversation with a man she is flirting. But that’s ok.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:you inscribe words on a visible part of your body and then dislike being asked about it? I have a hard time making sense of that.

It was a mistake, many years ago.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I asked a cashier what his arm tattoo said (it was not in English). My friend who was with me later tells me, you know that’s considered flirting. I’m married. It never even crossed my mind. I was genuinely interested in the tattoo. I am friendly with people generally and will chat it up with cashiers, shoppers, most about anyone who is friendly. Is it flirting if the other person is of the opposite gender?

Nothing wrong with flirting, even if you're married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I asked a cashier what his arm tattoo said (it was not in English). My friend who was with me later tells me, you know that’s considered flirting. I’m married. It never even crossed my mind. I was genuinely interested in the tattoo. I am friendly with people generally and will chat it up with cashiers, shoppers, most about anyone who is friendly. Is it flirting if the other person is of the opposite gender?

Of course not.

Why doubt yourself.

You know your own intention.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If a woman initiates a conversation with a man she is flirting. But that’s ok.

??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I personally would not consider it flirting but some men may take it that way.

I once told a guy that I liked the color of his car because I genuinely did.

Then my boyfriend (at the time) accused me of flirting. 🧐🤨

Men + women have very different thought processes it seems……

So they get to be free, but we do not?

Don’t let them keep us in a box.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it’s flirting. People ask others personal questions to bond with them. DH used to do this until he went to therapy. Now he has appropriate boundaries with women and doesn’t initiate conversations by asking questions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's not flirting, at all. It's actually considered an inappropriate question in tattoo communities.

Where are these communities located? Do they have any nice amenities?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, it’s flirting. People ask others personal questions to bond with them. DH used to do this until he went to therapy. Now he has appropriate boundaries with women and doesn’t initiate conversations by asking questions.

Feel sorry for the poor guy.