. What documentary are you referring to ? |
Noticed you failed to say what is actually eaten, by you or your child, in or out of the house. Portion size? Too many carbs (ie sugars) Dessert? Gatorade? Real health clinics watch you for 2 days or overnights to check your vitals. Some do one full week and baseline tests day 1 and day 6. |
How funny that no one is disclosing what is actually being eaten each day. What foods, what size, what time of day. |
This Some kids are eating all the wrong calories. |
It is really hard when your teen is mostly in charge of their own eating. Mine just came back from camp-- they have pizza and ice cream during the day. Then her friend's mom took her for Starbucks, where they got grande frappes. Junk food is everywhere and it's asking a lot of a 13-year-old to turn it down. |
How are her menstrual cycles? Does she have excess hair? She very well may have PCOS. Most of these comments have decided that she is doing something wrong and is lying, rather than looking into those conditions where it’s just the way the body is wired. |
that's nice but when your "child" is a teen (older teen?) there's not much you can do -- if anything -- to induce weight loss. You control very little. Parents of 4 year olds who control every single aspect of that preschooler's world forget this. |
Ugh. Agree and I hate it. Parents just won’t stop, and if you tell your child they can’t have it you are the bad guy |
And schools are compounding it, making the kids most prone to obesity even fatter. Free breakfast for all (pop tarts and chocolate milk) , free lunch for all, pizza party for good behavior, donuts with finals, boxes of candy and bags of chips are pretty much the only incentives teachers use in classroom for anything relating to teens |
Exactly. And if you say no, they'll find a way to sneak it later. We try to moderate: "You had ice cream at camp, let's have fruit for dessert". But then there are cupcakes at soccer practice -- the kid looks at you with a pathetic face. Do you really say no? This plays out ALL THE FREAKING TIME. |
I am the compulsive eater poster. Back then, it was attributed to "glands" or whatever...but honestly it was what I ate! There was no mystery about why I was fat and kept gaining. I ate adult sized portions at meals, was my mother's eating buddy, and sneaked food from age 6.
I did not have thyroid problems, PCOS, or anything. After getting myself some help for my eating disorder at age 27 I lost the excess weight easily. Kept most of it off for over 40 years. She may be eating things you aren't aware of. The nutritionist is anti logging because that makes compulsive eaters more compulsive. Weight Watchers made me nuts, lol not lol. |
Y’all need to read “Fat Talk” by Virginia Sole-Smith |
But what is too be done about a teen that just wants to eat too much other than meds? You obv knew you were eating too much, I can’t imagine making a food log would have moved the needle as a teen |
Teen has to want to stop. I didn't realize I had an eating disorder until 27. I just thought I was bad and doomed.
Once I heard about eating disorders and therapy for it I wanted to recover. |
My hockey kids wouldn’t eat that. Neither would their friends. They’d be barfing at the next practice. And coach would be pissed. |