1st grader peed on another classmate in summer school

[Anonymous]

People should really stop saying "not normal"

First, if it turns out this kid is abused making it sound like the kid is abnormal for whatever the issue - is pretty crappy.

Also, unless you've worked with this age group, some 6 year olds find this to be hysterical. My brother did this a bit around this age and now is the CEO of a major company. It might not be normal, but it's not an indicator he's going to be like Trump

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I really think this kid has been abused.

Same.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People should really stop saying "not normal"

First, if it turns out this kid is abused making it sound like the kid is abnormal for whatever the issue - is pretty crappy.

Also, unless you've worked with this age group, some 6 year olds find this to be hysterical. My brother did this a bit around this age and now is the CEO of a major company. It might not be normal, but it's not an indicator he's going to be like Trump

OP said there have been several incidents of the kid deliberately peeing on kids, threatening to do so, and forcing other kids to pee (mostly outside which means more than once and also inside).

That's super, super not normal and the OP doesn't seem as concerned as she should be.

It sounds like you are saying boys will be boys. That's gross. This is also abusing and traumatizing other children. I hope OP's son wasn't abused, but he desperately needs to be evaluated.

[Anonymous]

Wait, he deliberately peed all over another kid? And… you pulled him out of camp and told him that’s absolutely unacceptable and he won’t be participating in fun activities or playdates until you’re confident that will NEVER happen again?

What are your boundaries, OP? Is your child aware of them? I’m assuming he doesn’t have a neurological issue that’s been identified since you didn’t mention one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People should really stop saying "not normal"

First, if it turns out this kid is abused making it sound like the kid is abnormal for whatever the issue - is pretty crappy.

Also, unless you've worked with this age group, some 6 year olds find this to be hysterical. My brother did this a bit around this age and now is the CEO of a major company. It might not be normal, but it's not an indicator he's going to be like Trump

We’re saying the behavior is not normal. Not that the child is not normal. OP needs to understand that she is dealing with abnormal behavior and address it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is 100% your typical neglected rich kid who has been in daycare since infancy. I'm guessing he went to aftercare in kindergarten too. And now you pawn him off on summer school staff. He picks up these behaviors from the older neglected rich kids at the child warehouses.

The mega church SAHM who makes her children's cereal from scratch because to feed them store-bought would be neglect has entered the chat...

[Anonymous]

This kid needs care and supervision.

[Anonymous]

What in the actual f. OP this is nowhere near normal. Peeing on kids? FORCING other kids to pee? How does that even work? You seem really cavalier about this whole thing. If it were me I would have taking action after the first one of these incidents.

[Anonymous]

Not normal.

Be grateful the other parent didn’t come for you and your kid.

By age 3 kids know that’s unacceptable.

Your kid needs serious consequences. To hear this wasn’t the first or second time?!?! Wtf OP get your kid evaluated for being a jerk and step up to the parenting plate and get a grip on reality. It’s entirely unacceptable. I’ve worked with tons of kids with disabilities and guess what they do not do this.

[Anonymous]

That's pyscho behavior. I'm surprised you don't actually think this is serious. Hello Ted Bundy's Mom.

[Anonymous]

How can OP’s kid “force” other kids to pee? They are at school. Perhaps OP’s kid said “hey! Let’s do something crazy and let’s all pee together near this bush”.

I have never heard of a kid purposely peeing on another, but little kids seem to find any bodily function really funny and love to talk about it.
Apparently, at my kids school there is a pee bush in the playground where kids have been rumored to have peed before. This bush is not in any hidden place in the playground and I doubt that teachers would not have seen this.

Also, other kids proud themselves of laughing so hard until they peed their pants in 2nd grade…

I think that if other kids are feeling threatened and scared of OP’s kid because he is really trying to exercise power over them, then it’s really bad and does sound like OP’s kid is a bully (though very very young).

On the other hand, if OP is the class clown and other kids find him funny, he is probably just in need of stricter parental/teacher control until he stops this behavior.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is 100% your typical neglected rich kid who has been in daycare since infancy. I'm guessing he went to aftercare in kindergarten too. And now you pawn him off on summer school staff. He picks up these behaviors from the older neglected rich kids at the child warehouses.

LOL rich kids don’t go to daycare

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is 100% your typical neglected rich kid who has been in daycare since infancy. I'm guessing he went to aftercare in kindergarten too. And now you pawn him off on summer school staff. He picks up these behaviors from the older neglected rich kids at the child warehouses.

LOL rich kids don’t go to daycare

Sadly this is not true. Even people who can easily afford a nanny will dump their kids in cheap daycare. Gotta pinch every penny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is 100% your typical neglected rich kid who has been in daycare since infancy. I'm guessing he went to aftercare in kindergarten too. And now you pawn him off on summer school staff. He picks up these behaviors from the older neglected rich kids at the child warehouses.

The mega church SAHM who makes her children's cereal from scratch because to feed them store-bought would be neglect has entered the chat...

At least her kid isn't peeing on others for fun. I will never understand parents who put their kids in daycare when they can afford a nanny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is 100% your typical neglected rich kid who has been in daycare since infancy. I'm guessing he went to aftercare in kindergarten too. And now you pawn him off on summer school staff. He picks up these behaviors from the older neglected rich kids at the child warehouses.

The mega church SAHM who makes her children's cereal from scratch because to feed them store-bought would be neglect has entered the chat...

At least her kid isn't peeing on others for fun. I will never understand parents who put their kids in daycare when they can afford a nanny.

This thread is not the right place for nanny/daycare wars. Please leave.