1st grader peed on another classmate in summer school

[Anonymous]

My first grader purposely peed all over another student when they went to the bathroom together. The student had to change clothes. He’s had a few other incidents with forcing children to pee in places (outside mostly) and threatening to pee on children. Has anyone dealt with this? Any words of advice if what this could be? He’s a perfectly normal kid otherwise.

[Anonymous]

Your kid is not normal and no where has summer school started. Fake

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your kid is not normal and no where has summer school started. Fake

Our last day was May 24 and started summer school. If you want to call me a troll carryon but I’m looking for genuine responses of people who have dealt with this. Kid has no issues otherwise.

[Anonymous]

You might take him to the pediatrician- it doesn’t sound medical in nature but it’s always best to rule that out first. Sometimes knowing they might have to go to the doctor again can be enough to make them think twice about doing it again. Oh no you can’t stay for the class party today because you have to go to the doctor. You peed on your friend so we have to see the doctor today. No we don’t have time for ice cream, we have to go do (really boring mundane task) after we’re done.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry to say this but something about that sounds like he was abused. Forcing kids to pee? It feels like he's trying to exert control.

[Anonymous]

Get your kid evaluated. It’s not normal.

[Anonymous]

This is 100% your typical neglected rich kid who has been in daycare since infancy. I'm guessing he went to aftercare in kindergarten too. And now you pawn him off on summer school staff. He picks up these behaviors from the older neglected rich kids at the child warehouses.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is 100% your typical neglected rich kid who has been in daycare since infancy. I'm guessing he went to aftercare in kindergarten too. And now you pawn him off on summer school staff. He picks up these behaviors from the older neglected rich kids at the child warehouses.

I had a foster child about 10 years ago who was neglected by drug addicted mother. I had to take her at 2 years old to a daycare 3 days a week. It was required by the state. You want to see neglected kids just look around. It’s low income, middle in income and high income kids and it’s sad. It’s not about rich or poor.

[Anonymous]

Not normal at all. I taught first grade and the only kid who did that was seriously disturbed. He was really a mean kid who delighted in upsetting others. Major issues all the way through elementary school and I heard in high school.

[Anonymous]

What were the consequences at home? My advice would be based on that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What were the consequences at home? My advice would be based on that.

This. OP what was the consequence the first second and third and other times this happened as you reference this happening more than once before. What have you already tried?

[Anonymous]

This is not normal, OP.

[Anonymous]

This is not normal OP. Take him to the pediatrician and possibly a therapist. This isn't the first time this has happened?? It's one thing to have an accident but this is assault.

[Anonymous]

You need to discuss it with your pediatrician and get her opinion and possibly a referral for a child behavioral therapist. This is not normal social behavior for a first grader, kid needs help. As parents, you two need to spend more 101 time with him, without any distractions like phone, chores or siblings.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What were the consequences at home? My advice would be based on that.

This.
My kid would face serious consequences. It’s not normal but I can see some 6/7 year old boys thinking it’s funny. It’s not and he needs to learn there are serious repercussions.