If your supervisor is telling you this, you are already on the list for the next downsizing. I’d look for another job. |
Ridiculous. So it's not whether you're productive or not it's whether you drink with the boss...well some of us don't drink and some of us don't want to spend our personal time with our bosses so if that precludes me from bonuses and promotions then so be it. I have never worked at a place where that is the expectation. |
As a supervisor your attitude would really gnaw at me. Enjoy the free lunch and mixing with your coworkers then get back to work. |
If this is OP, if your supervisor brought it up, I'd think if this is the hill you want to die on and if you want/need this job. It's a few times per year and your get a free meal. |
Same. You need to do the suggestion above. And let it go. |
We have things like this too. But the lunches are totally voluntary so technically we should use our lunch break to participate. Luckily nobody in my office cares (including the supervisors). If our higher ups knew we were taking a lunch break on top of the taking time for the office lunch, they'd put a stop to it.
If your supervisor requires you to participate in the vendor lunch, that's really part of your work day and you should be able to also take your lunch break. If it's voluntary, then your supervisor is right. Petty, but correct. |
Op here. This is my take as well. I work 8-5pm with a 1 hour UNPAID lunch break. I think it's petty to request attendance and then ask us to take the time we spend at the Company "event" out of our unpaid lunch break. We are admin./support staff and all agree on this. I thought I'd come here to hear what other companies or what's legal. |
I find the supervisor really rigid! You can't *require* someone spend their unpaid time doing something and then deny them their break. If this is just a few times a year, the supervisor should be letting this go. OP, I'd ask your supervisor to document the request in an email. If they force you to take your lunch and be there for 9 hours, I'd do the malicious compliance route. |
She's probably young and saw it on the TikTok. There's this whole subgenre urging employees to be obstinate about their work hours. |
Do you sit in meetings where they fret about retention? If so, this is why. It's a few times a year that an employee takes their break after a required lunch. How does that "gnaw" at you? |
This is so cheap of you and antisocial. Either take the free lunch and eat with your coworkers or go out on your own dime. I've never had a free lunch in 20 years of working, but I do enjoy eating with my colleagues occasionally.
Frankly, if you hate your coworkers that much that you can't even eat a free lunch with them, you need to get a new job. You're lucky you get a paid lunch. I do not. I get 2 15 minute breaks, but I have to work 8.5 hours so that I can take a 30 min lunch. I'm only paid 8 hours. |
The OP does not get a paid lunch. Some of yall need reading comprehension courses. Again LUNCH HOUR IS UNPAID. |
If I'm required to attend then it's not my break.
I always take my lunch on the terrible days when we have potluck parties. I don't eat food others make. I go, mingle for a bit and sometimes hold a plate if someone forces me. If my boss said that attending the potluck was my lunch break and I was not allowed a break then I would tell them I choose to skip the lame potluck and go on my own instead. |
Lunch break is unpaid and the "free Lunch" is paid by a Vendor... How is that double dipping? |
I’m not saying you don’t have a point, but how many times a year is this? A few, so three or four? Eat your lunch there, mingle, and suck it up. It all balances out with the time that most people goof off at work. |