the case for not divorcing

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry that happened to you but you seem like you're angry about it towards people on the Internet and I'm not sure anyone here can help you with that.

[Anonymous]

A couple reasons.
1. You don't hate your kids.
2. You don't hate your grandkids (whether they have arrived yet or not).
3. You are a grown ass man or woman who realizes that the perfect is the enemy of the good. So you realize that "wherever you go, there you are". Jumping on to the next d!ck isn't going to solve your problems.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why didn’t you drive her OP?

Personally I think remarrying and having babies when you have young kids is pretty tacky so I’m with you there.

Same. So trashy.

Quick, everyone stop living your lives because two losers on DCUM think it's "tacky and trashy."

BTW tacky and trashy are words you use when you're uneducated and haven't read enough to learn other, more descriptive words.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A couple reasons.
1. You don't hate your kids.
2. You don't hate your grandkids (whether they have arrived yet or not).
3. You are a grown ass man or woman who realizes that the perfect is the enemy of the good.[/b] So you realize that "wherever you go, there you are". Jumping on to the next d!ck isn't going to solve your problems.[b]

And vice versa for the men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A couple reasons.
1. You don't hate your kids.
2. You don't hate your grandkids (whether they have arrived yet or not).
3. You are a grown ass man or woman who realizes that the perfect is the enemy of the good. So you realize that "wherever you go, there you are". Jumping on to the next d!ck isn't going to solve your problems.

Another DCUM genius spreading her wisdom. Where have you been my whole life?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:<yawn> 🥱

+1.

Ideal marriages are just that...ideal.

We live in the real world.

OP seems to be comparing divorce against a functioning marriage. I also lived through my parents' daily toxic fighting. What OP described sounds much more terrific in comparison. A missed playdate versus adults screaming and crying for hours?

Or a stepmom who doesn't prioritize your needs versus her own / the shared kids

I'm not sure what you are saying? Perhaps it's better for this child to spend it with the baby sibling she doesn't see as much. Perhaps it's not a want but a need.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is the case against step children.

If all the kids have the same set of parents, divorce and remarry has more potential to be less dysfunctional.

If you have children and are divorced, only remarry people who do not have / want children of their own.

Most people who want children, want their own children. Most people who don’t want children, don’t want to raise your children.

[Anonymous]

Ugh. Divorce is awful period. So many people think life is a fairytale and because you have a crush on someone else you should end your marriage and “be happy” and that “kids are resilient.” All of that is bullshit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ugh. Divorce is awful period. So many people think life is a fairytale and because you have a crush on someone else you should end your marriage and “be happy” and that “kids are resilient.” All of that is bullshit.

plus a zillion

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why didn’t you drive her OP?

Personally I think remarrying and having babies when you have young kids is pretty tacky so I’m with you there.

Seriously. OP had time to pontificate on DCUM with her superior attitude but couldn't give the kid a ride.

[Anonymous]

OP, I don't understand why you texted the dad and the stepmom? Why didn't you just tell your kid 'Larla is at her dads this weekend and can't come over'.

As a divorced mom, if you texted my kid's dad I would think you were weird and probably not let my kid go to your house. Her dad would think you are weird too!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why didn’t you drive her OP?

Personally I think remarrying and having babies when you have young kids is pretty tacky so I’m with you there.

Same. So trashy.

Quick, everyone stop living your lives because two losers on DCUM think it's "tacky and trashy."

BTW tacky and trashy are words you use when you're uneducated and haven't read enough to learn other, more descriptive words.

NP with a PHD. I agree. It’s both trashy and tacky.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why didn’t you drive her OP?

Personally I think remarrying and having babies when you have young kids is pretty tacky so I’m with you there.

Same. So trashy.

Quick, everyone stop living your lives because two losers on DCUM think it's "tacky and trashy."

BTW tacky and trashy are words you use when you're uneducated and haven't read enough to learn other, more descriptive words.

NP with a PHD. I agree. It’s both trashy and tacky.

Tacky is an attempt at argumentum ab auctoritate by citing your (sic) "PHD" instead of letting your ideas stand and fall on their merits.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why didn’t you drive her OP?

Personally I think remarrying and having babies when you have young kids is pretty tacky so I’m with you there.

Same. So trashy.

Quick, everyone stop living your lives because two losers on DCUM think it's "tacky and trashy."

BTW tacky and trashy are words you use when you're uneducated and haven't read enough to learn other, more descriptive words.

NP with a PHD. I agree. It’s both trashy and tacky.

Tacky is an attempt at argumentum ab auctoritate by citing your (sic) "PHD" instead of letting your ideas stand and fall on their merits.

Not sure what you are trying to say. Your sentence is confusing and not well-written In any event, I’m educated and agree with the other posters. “ Trashy” and “tacky” are perfect descriptive words for the behavior discussed.

[Anonymous]

And in direct response to your notion that only “ uneducated” individuals would use those words. Got it now?