if your spouse leaves a trail of stuff, how do you handle it?

[Anonymous]

I joke around with my DH that he will be murdered someday by a hit man who just has to follow his trail of crap. But, seriously, I hired a cleaning lady as soon as we bought a house because he’s ADHD and I could tell it would never change. He.Does.Not.See.It. We also found things that he’s amazing at that free me up to pick up after him (cooking, laundry, yard work). And, we created a room that’s just his. It’s disaster and I don’t care because I never go in there. I won’t pretend any of this was easy. It was VERY hard for me for a while because I come from a neat family. But, I’m so glad I didn’t divorce him over it (30 yrs together)