What are some things that others think are desirable that you actively do not want?

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Premarital sex

[Anonymous]

Living downtown.

[Anonymous]

All inclusive resorts pretty much anywhere but especially in Mexico

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A vacation home. My regular home is plenty of work already. I don’t need to double up on those responsibilities.

+1

This 100 percent

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Travelling all the time.

I've travelled enough. Some travel is all I need.

[Anonymous]

Going to an all-inclusive

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Anonymous wrote:Travelling all the time.

I've travelled enough. Some travel is all I need.

Same. Also don't want a dog.

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Anonymous wrote:Big boobs.

same, except I’ve got them and don’t want them. I also do not want unnecessary surgery.

I was a 32F when I was diagnosed with BC. I had a double mastectomy with no reconstruction. Lemme tell you I am happier than a pig in sh¡t! Life without boobs is 10,000x better than life with big knockers.

[Anonymous]

I agree with most of these except St Barts is worth it. Best vacation I’ve been on by far.

[Anonymous]

Large houses. I truly do not understand the appeal. We are looking to move in the next few years and our budget is such that in our preferred neighborhoods, we could either buy something smaller for cash or mostly cash, or we could get a large house and pay about what we currently pay. The realtor and my mom and several friends keep telling me "just get the bigger house, you won't regret it" but I really don't want to. We have plenty of space now at less than 1500 sq ft. I don't think I want something more than 2000 sq ft. What is it for? I also don't want to furnish and design and decorate all that extra space. We only have one kid and she'll be in MS by the time we move. The idea of some 3000-4000 sq ft house sounds like way too much for a small family, much less empty nesters. I value good layout (or getting a great price and then being able to spend money to renovate it to make the absolute most of it) over extra square footage, but the market really seems geared toward the idea that larger houses are always better. They definitely seem to appreciate better.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Big boobs.

same, except I’ve got them and don’t want them. I also do not want unnecessary surgery.

I was a 32F when I was diagnosed with BC. I had a double mastectomy with no reconstruction. Lemme tell you I am happier than a pig in sh¡t! Life without boobs is 10,000x better than life with big knockers.

Talking about making lemonade out of lemons. Best wishes to you, PP.

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No kids for me thanks!

[Anonymous]

Agree with many of these - kids, expensive or luxury bags/shoes/cars/etc.

I honestly don't care for luxury anything in terms of "stuff" or material things. I'd rather have a nice experience or trip.

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Anonymous wrote:Agree with many of these - kids, expensive or luxury bags/shoes/cars/etc.

I honestly don't care for luxury anything in terms of "stuff" or material things. I'd rather have a nice experience or trip.

Sorry but kids are nothing like these other items. They are actually the opposite.

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Anonymous wrote:I’ll go first - going to st barths. It seems like a worse island than the others but just more expensive and like Miami Beach?

It's far better than most other islands (except maybe St John but a totally different vibe) and it's absolutely nothing like Miami Beach.

how is it better? am curious bc in pics it does not look better.