Where to get gown for May wedding - black tie optional - 60 - size 18

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:https://www.kiyonna.com/products/francesca-cocktail-dress?variant=44975772696881

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/victoria-velvet-evening-gown?variant=44967508148529

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/leona-lace-gown?variant=44967097794865

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/celestial-cape-sleeve-gown?variant=48367787573553

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/victoria-velvet-evening-gown?variant=44967508148529

I like this line. thank you.

Now sizing - measuring my bust, my waist and my hips gives me three different sizes. Do I just go for the middle one and hope?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Wow if anyone could take these recent recs down a notch suitable for a college graduation I'd owe you a big debt of gratitude. (but size 12ish)

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/lillian-embroidered-cocktail-dress?variant=47215271412017

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/wildflower-embroidered-dress?variant=44967463878961

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/portia-long-sleeve-dress?variant=47529814524209

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/kelsey-long-sleeve-maxi-dress?variant=47818500800817

Are you the same person that made the recommendations from above?

And if so, do you have an Instagram page or something?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.kiyonna.com/products/francesca-cocktail-dress?variant=44975772696881

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/victoria-velvet-evening-gown?variant=44967508148529

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/leona-lace-gown?variant=44967097794865

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/celestial-cape-sleeve-gown?variant=48367787573553

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/victoria-velvet-evening-gown?variant=44967508148529

I like this line. thank you.

Now sizing - measuring my bust, my waist and my hips gives me three different sizes. Do I just go for the middle one and hope?

If the material is not stretchy, use the largest size and get it tailored. If it's stretch you might get away with ordering the middle size.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow if anyone could take these recent recs down a notch suitable for a college graduation I'd owe you a big debt of gratitude. (but size 12ish)

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/lillian-embroidered-cocktail-dress?variant=47215271412017

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/wildflower-embroidered-dress?variant=44967463878961

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/portia-long-sleeve-dress?variant=47529814524209

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/kelsey-long-sleeve-maxi-dress?variant=47818500800817

Are you the same person that made the recommendations from above?

And if so, do you have an Instagram page or something?

Yes I’m the same person, I don’t do Instagram I’m just around that size and know what styles would look good on me. I like that company and igigi best best but igigi didn’t have many good options when I looked today.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.kiyonna.com/products/francesca-cocktail-dress?variant=44975772696881

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/victoria-velvet-evening-gown?variant=44967508148529

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/leona-lace-gown?variant=44967097794865

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/celestial-cape-sleeve-gown?variant=48367787573553

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/victoria-velvet-evening-gown?variant=44967508148529

I like this line. thank you.

Now sizing - measuring my bust, my waist and my hips gives me three different sizes. Do I just go for the middle one and hope?

If it’s empire waist fit the bust first, hip size doesn’t matter so much. Usually I don’t have to alter empire waist if the fit the bust unless they’re too long. If it’s more form fitting fit the largest part and have it altered. You can also contact the company and get the exact measurements for the specific dress you’re interested in.

[Anonymous]

Nordstrom and Macys have a ton right now. Tysons.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I also liked Lord & Taylor.

I feel that online versions of department stores have potential.

The fashionistas on here are very down on what I would consider traditional brands (e.g., Talbot's).

Based on my mom's shopping experiences and recommendations on other DCUM threads, you might try Dillard's. Macy's online is pretty obvious plus it would be easier to return things that don't work out.

https://www.dillards.com/p/adrianna-papell-plus-size-beaded-mesh-jewel-neck-short-flutter-sleeve-blouson-gown/514173245

Another option might be David's Bridal. There are many plus size brides and bridal party members. You might find a suitably formal dress there.

Tell us what your ideal silhouette is, and maybe people can suggest some options?

OP here. I have no idea what that means.

By silhouette I mean..describe the basic outline of dresses you like. Like a pencil sketch of the sleeves, neckline, waist, length. Most people have styles they like, and some no gos.

For example:

I like sleeves and never do sleeveless.
Cleavage or no cleavage? Scoop or sweetheart or vee?
You already said no defined waist
Length?
Colors you like?
Beading or no beading (sequins/pearls)
Can you post some examples of things that look good to you? Because I think my style is traditional/classic and the things I post have the bodycon fashionistas screaming "Omg, No!" Since you asked for matronly, we'd like to help you look comfy but not old and unattractive...let's aim higher!

Also I'm intrigued by the people who suggest eShakti for dress customization. I'm not there yet, but have considered it.

Okay, prefer a sleeve but it can be see through, prefer vee neck - high waist is supposed to be better on me, rouging helps, it’s not that I don’t want a waist, it is just that I don’t really have one ( between an apple and a rectangle), I am a true “winter” so jewel tones and black and red are good. Black looks the best. My legs and arms are fit, my ankles are freakishly small. I carry everything in my bust (40G) and belly (stress and metabolism issues) - no hips or butt. I have completely grey/white hair - except for eyebrows and eyelashes which are black. I am Scottish and English - very pale. I look like I stopped by the parts store when they were out of complete sets and had to get spares parts from several body types. I have looked middle aged my entire life and am now entering my cronehood.

OP you should definitely talk about yourself more nicely than this, but your writing is great!

[Anonymous]

Lots of great options posted, I'd maybe go with navy for a spring wedding, OP. Enjoy!

[Anonymous]

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/floral-foil-print-flutter-sleeve-gown-plus/7731853?origin=coordinating-7731853-0-2-MOBI_FTR-recbot-recently_viewed_snowplow_mvp&recs_placement=MOBI_FTR&recs_strategy=recently_viewed_snowplow_mvp&recs_source=recbot&recs_page_type=category&recs_seed=0&color=NAVY%2F%20GUNMETAL

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/kiyonna-starry-sequin-lace-fit-flare-cocktail-dress-plus/7577531?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FWomen%2FClothing%2FPlus-Size%20Clothing%2FDresses&fashionsize=size%2FWomens%20Clothing%2F18W%2C%202X%2C%2020%2C%204XL&color=440

https://www.dillards.com/p/alex-evenings-plus-size-tea-length-rosette-skirt-party-dress/510111753

https://www.dillards.com/p/ignite-evenings-plus-size-34-sleeve-v-neck-sequin-lace-a-line-dress/516974780

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.kiyonna.com/products/francesca-cocktail-dress?variant=44975772696881

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/victoria-velvet-evening-gown?variant=44967508148529

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/leona-lace-gown?variant=44967097794865

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/celestial-cape-sleeve-gown?variant=48367787573553

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/victoria-velvet-evening-gown?variant=44967508148529

Of these options this one is best for a May wedding
https://www.kiyonna.com/products/celestial-cape-sleeve-gown?variant=48367787573553

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:https://www.nordstrom.com/s/floral-foil-print-flutter-sleeve-gown-plus/7731853?origin=coordinating-7731853-0-2-MOBI_FTR-recbot-recently_viewed_snowplow_mvp&recs_placement=MOBI_FTR&recs_strategy=recently_viewed_snowplow_mvp&recs_source=recbot&recs_page_type=category&recs_seed=0&color=NAVY%2F%20GUNMETAL

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/kiyonna-starry-sequin-lace-fit-flare-cocktail-dress-plus/7577531?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FWomen%2FClothing%2FPlus-Size%20Clothing%2FDresses&fashionsize=size%2FWomens%20Clothing%2F18W%2C%202X%2C%2020%2C%204XL&color=440

https://www.dillards.com/p/alex-evenings-plus-size-tea-length-rosette-skirt-party-dress/510111753

https://www.dillards.com/p/ignite-evenings-plus-size-34-sleeve-v-neck-sequin-lace-a-line-dress/516974780

These are pretty too. Are you looking for long or short OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.kiyonna.com/products/francesca-cocktail-dress?variant=44975772696881

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/victoria-velvet-evening-gown?variant=44967508148529

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/leona-lace-gown?variant=44967097794865

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/celestial-cape-sleeve-gown?variant=48367787573553

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/victoria-velvet-evening-gown?variant=44967508148529

Dang girl, you have a gift.

I’m loving the Leona lace gown - agree with PP - you picked some beautiful options!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.kiyonna.com/products/francesca-cocktail-dress?variant=44975772696881

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/victoria-velvet-evening-gown?variant=44967508148529

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/leona-lace-gown?variant=44967097794865

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/celestial-cape-sleeve-gown?variant=48367787573553

https://www.kiyonna.com/products/victoria-velvet-evening-gown?variant=44967508148529

Dang girl, you have a gift.

I’m loving the Leona lace gown - agree with PP - you picked some beautiful options!

That one is so pretty in blue.