It depends on the state. Please research. |
They don't have to be. 50% spent on 1 member of the couple is all that's expected. |
Well, it depends how much your assets are. The "community spouse" may keep 50% of all assets up to $100,000. So yeah, if your assets are $200,000 the "community spouse" may keep half or $100,000. If your assets are $900,000, the well spouse gets to keep $100,000 for his/her retirement, and $800,000 needs to be spent down on approved things (like a few years in a nursing home) before the ill/disabled spouse will qualify for Medicaid. |
OP, any money set in a trust can still be spent on your father's care. It just can't be under his control any longer. Whoever is in charge of the trust can use it to pay for extras, above what Medicaid will pay for.
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Here's info for maryland.
Money Follow the Person https://health.maryland.gov/mmcp/longtermcare/Pages/Maryland-Money-Follows-the-Person.aspx If your parent is ever so sick that he needs to live in a nursing home for at least one day, and qualifies for Medicaid, he can use Medicaid to pay for him to be able to live at home There's also HCBS Waivers https://health.maryland.gov/mmcp/waiverprograms/pages/home.aspx |
Assets for spouses in Maryland
https://aging.maryland.gov/Documents/Medicaid%20Q+A.pdf
The spouse also can keep the house, generally. It doesn't have to sold, but ALL retirement savings need to be spent, except for $119,220. |
I would ask him what his plans are. He may have seen friends or relatives go through the process, especially if anyone has been dealing with alzheimer/dementia. Many years in a nursing home will indeed wipe out someone's life savings. |
OP here—- yes I understand that. But what else is it for if not to pay for end of life care? Why would he want to live in a Medicare facility if he doesn’t have to? My mom has already passed so he doesn’t need the money for her. |
Too bad. The government should be on the hook for care so someone can get an inheritance. |
How much does he have? My sisters MIL has lived from 80 to almost 90 in assisted living, just in the last four years has she started needed daily, then round the clock aides. Four years at that rate of spend has completed wiped out her assets. Medicaid will now cover a nursing home now but now she can’t pay for her own aides. There is no one to one care at any nursing home, even a great one. If she had put her $800,000 assets into a trust, Medicaid would have covered the nursing home years earlier and they’d still have the money to hire aides for her. |
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He has about 2M that I know of. Your point about the ability to hire aides makes sense. But if you’re in a Medicare bed, doesn’t it look odd that you have 1:1 care? |
Medicaid, not Medicare. No it isn't odd! Anyone could be paying for your aides or your nice mattress ... the family has to cover all the extras. |
But a nursing home won't allow someone to provide physical care to the patient; but they will let you hire a sitter, usually. Or if your parent stays in the home, you can apply for medicaid to help cover aides, and then supplement. |
2M gives him so many options. Please talk to some fee only financial advisors. You should be able to generate about $200k/year from that. Walk away from someone who wants you to settle for a lot less. Does he also have a pension + social security? |