I think OP get this. The point is who the hell wants to plan for being in a Medicaid place. They are a living nightmare and most people would avoid. Sell your home and use the money to be some place decent. |
Any person who watches an elder person put their assets in trust so they can go into a Medicaid place and pass the money on to you, you are not a good person. Sincerely. This is F-ed up. |
Maybe the elderly person wants it that way, but I agree medicaid facilities are terrible. However, you could also protect the assets and use medicaid for extensive home aid in the now protected home. Best of both worlds. |
They allow the spouse to keep the house but they put a lien on it. |
Medicaid does not pay for home health aids...or assisted living. |
That’s very harsh. What really matters is whether Dad is competent. Not every Medicaid facility is a nightmare. Some are simple, but still provide excellent care. Until quite recently we had a very nice Medicaid facility in our hometown. Unfortunately after many decades, it is closing suddenly. Maybe dad is thinking of a particular place, it’s important for him to understand it may not be there in the future. But as many PP have pointed out, the option for better care will still be available , but if he’s satisfied with a Medicaid facility then ok. If he’s no longer competent, it will be up to daughter (assuming she is POA). This thread really underscore the importance of having hard discussions about finances and aging. It’s so much better when communication is open and there are plans and contingency plans in place. Good luck, OP, you sound like a devoted and caring daughter. |
This. And before someone gets admitted into a facility, there is a thorough review of assets. If there’s only a few months of payment available, admission is unlikely. |
Right, but they can’t do that if someone else owns the house. |
It does pay for home aides in most states. |
For a lot of people, it is really hard to give up your assets after working so hard your entire life. It’s not always about passing the money on to kids but the kids can sell the home and pay for additional care for their aging parent. |
With Medicaid all income (Social Security included) gets garnished and used for payment for the facility, and you are left with a minuscule allowance per month. |
it used to be $40. Not sure how much now |
Also, CCC plus waiver in VA maxes out around 56/hours per week that Medicaid pays very little hourly for. So, that is a lot of hours/week left unattended if you utilize home based services. |
Correct, you don't necessarily end up in a "medicaid" facility, there are a certain number of beds for medicaid clients at nicer facilities. Additionally, the overall length of stays at nursing homes is much lower than one might think, usually measured in months not years I believe. |
NP here. This is 110% true. I have seen it, and it ain't pretty. usually someone benefits who p*sses through money. |