Do you fantasize about someone else?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All the time. Constantly wishing I could go back in time and undo the mistake of marrying my spouse. Think about how happier my life would be if I married the following people instead.

GS
CC
CC
KR
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But, you deal with the decision you make. Thus, the miserable life I have.

We’re Eskimo brothers 3x!

[Anonymous]

Yes, all the time. It's only natural. I love and am attracted to my DH.

[Anonymous]

When I see someone I make a snap judgement on if they are attractive and if I would bang them or not. Then I move on and that's where it stays. I fantasize about my GF and what I want to do with her.

[Anonymous]

Not in the last few hours.

[Anonymous]

Only in solo time. During solo time, I've never thought about DH.

With Dh, I've never thought about anyone else, ever.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not in the last few hours.

lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:While married? How often?

No no time and my spouse is an a hole.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Happily married man here. I love my wife, I find her attractive, and would never cheat in a million years.
BUT, I fantasize about sex with other women (ex-GFs, women at work, other Moms in our social circle, neighbors) all the time. All the time.
Any man who claims otherwise is either lying or secretly gay.
and if he's secretly gay, he probably fantasizes about men.

same typically someone that exists in my orbit

-high drive DW

Same.

- high drive DH

[Anonymous]

I definitely do when I'm taking care of myself but I never fantasize about anyone I know personally. When I'm with my husband I never do as he keeps my mind and body very busy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Happily married man here. I love my wife, I find her attractive, and would never cheat in a million years.
BUT, I fantasize about sex with other women (ex-GFs, women at work, other Moms in our social circle, neighbors) all the time. All the time.
Any man who claims otherwise is either lying or secretly gay.
and if he's secretly gay, he probably fantasizes about men.

same typically someone that exists in my orbit

-high drive DW

Same.

- high drive DH

I feel more normal here because for most of my marriage I didn’t fantasize about anybody in particular during the act but in the past few years I have, especially as I near 40 and my drive has started going crazy.

[Anonymous]

Yep

[Anonymous]

I do about m current partner

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:While married? How often?

Google “modern monogamy.”

Might be an option for you and DH to explore.

[Anonymous]

nahhhh i am focused on what i have going on in front of me during intimate times and then fantasize about that during solo time

[Anonymous]

In daydreams. But during the act, I have to focus on sensations.