Do you fantasize about someone else?

[Anonymous]

God, yes.

[Anonymous]

All the time. Constantly wishing I could go back in time and undo the mistake of marrying my spouse. Think about how happier my life would be if I married the following people instead.

GS
CC
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KR
AY

But, you deal with the decision you make. Thus, the miserable life I have.

[Anonymous]

I fantasize about OP all the time. It’s how I deal with my bi interest.

[Anonymous]

Of course I’m married, not dead. It’s more than just attraction but personality and elements of realism. A celebrity or magazine face doesn’t do it for me.

[Anonymous]

Almost every time. I wouldn't be hurt if DH did too, but I certainly don't want him to tell me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Doesn’t everyone do this?

No

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Doesn’t everyone do this?

I would have lost money, given some "nos" I thought everyone did this as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Doesn’t everyone do this?

I would have lost money, given some "nos" I thought everyone did this as well.

welp, count me as one of the weirdos that does. I thought this was normal if not healthy to spice up your love life?

extradyadic fantasies are a sign of a healthy sex drive...and outlet for a crush

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Doesn’t everyone do this?

I would have lost money, given some "nos" I thought everyone did this as well.

welp, count me as one of the weirdos that does. I thought this was normal if not healthy to spice up your love life?

extradyadic fantasies are a sign of a healthy sex drive...and outlet for a crush

Same. Though I probably didn't start until maybe year 10 into the marriage?

It's pretty great. Actually takes away from any desire to have an affair -- why bother since you can just close your eyes? Agree that if my husband does that I really really do not want to know.

[Anonymous]

Happily married man here. I love my wife, I find her attractive, and would never cheat in a million years.
BUT, I fantasize about sex with other women (ex-GFs, women at work, other Moms in our social circle, neighbors) all the time. All the time.
Any man who claims otherwise is either lying or secretly gay.
and if he's secretly gay, he probably fantasizes about men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Happily married man here. I love my wife, I find her attractive, and would never cheat in a million years.
BUT, I fantasize about sex with other women (ex-GFs, women at work, other Moms in our social circle, neighbors) all the time. All the time.
Any man who claims otherwise is either lying or secretly gay.
and if he's secretly gay, he probably fantasizes about men.

same typically someone that exists in my orbit

-high drive DW

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Doesn’t everyone do this?

No!

Never ever ever, ever ever?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Happily married man here. I love my wife, I find her attractive, and would never cheat in a million years.
BUT, I fantasize about sex with other women (ex-GFs, women at work, other Moms in our social circle, neighbors) all the time. All the time.
Any man who claims otherwise is either lying or secretly gay.
and if he's secretly gay, he probably fantasizes about men.

Because you have a connection with them in some way emotionally or purely physical?

[Anonymous]

All the time, I fantasize about my crush at work.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Doesn’t everyone do this?

No!

Never ever ever, ever ever?

No no need to.