I would look into this. I have an 8 year old who withholds stool. She doesn't continually smell like poop, but she definitely does for long periods before she actually goes to poop. It's continual, not intermittent, so I don't know if it's gas or what. When I described the smell to her gastroenterologist she said that sounded like the result of an enlarged rectum. A child can be constipated and seem like they're having regular BMs -- so it's worth talking to his doctor. |
As someone who spends her days around a lot of gross smells, I have to ask OP: are you *sure* it’s a poop smell vs. a gas smell? When I smell a poop smell at home, I know for sure what it is and never confuse it with gas. The are really distinct from one another. |
| Can you ask his teacher if she has noticed any BO or similar issues at school? Does other parent or family member also smell it? |
| Maybe a bath instead of a shower? Once a week? You are only mentioning showers. Maybe a bath will solve the mystery-crack smell. |
I've looked for obvious signs. e.g. we have a dog and at one point I thought he left poop somewhere in the house. Nothing. I washed the car seat at the top of the year. I should also note he has a 4 year old brother who has similar habits and hangouts around the house but doesn't smell bad. Sometimes I will check on him when he's sleeping and he just reeks. But the smell usually dissipates when hes not there. Now I'm wondering if I am becoming nose blind. I am militant about sheet washing in general and regularly wash blankets but will do that more often. Thanks to everyone again for their good advice. And special shout out to the one person calling my kids nasty! Can't win em all. |
| Can anyone else smell the smell, or is it just you? |
| Are you a single parent with no help from family or babysitters? |
Just me and DH smelling it right now. Its possible others smell him but no one has said anything to us. |
Nope. Two parent household. Typical busy schedules with two careers but no real lifestyle issues beyond that. |
| Could it be diet? Him eating something specific comes out in sweat and smells like this? Maybe he cant metabolize certain protein? |
| Use Wet Ones after pooping. |
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I don't have any other suggestions for you, OP, but I have 3 boys, and they all went through some kind of gross-smelling stage when they started puberty. It was different for each of them, but one had the worst foot odor, and we could not combat it.
You are not alone, and your kids aren't nasty. Good luck with the doctor. |
I don’t totally agree with this. |
Who would!? |
| When my son's breath started to smell like poop it was a sign he was going to have appendicitis. He was 20. My nephew at age 9 had the same thing. I remember one of my kids saying he didn't like playing with the boy because he smelled so bad. They were not in the least dirty. |