Who comes first? Your spouse of child?

[Anonymous]

Trolling and bowling

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The one that’s not mentally or physically handicapped. If both, the younger one.

Most parents would sacrifice themselves for their child to live on.

Wow, this is a new low for DCUM.

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Anonymous wrote:My DH and I agreed that we will save our children first.

Also, I also tell my DH to abandon me and run away to save his life, if several men accost us. Why? They will certainly kill my DH if he is around. But, as a woman I know that they will rape me but probably keep me alive.

See what Hamas did with the Israeli women.

I will stay and they will kill is both. Our kids won’t even come to my mind in that moment.

[Anonymous]

My child.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife would be really pissed off if I saved her instead of saving our kids

Same

[Anonymous]

As someone who has had to make excruciating choices between a spouse and child, this thread is so weird, like you are playing a party game with my life.

[Anonymous]

As in whose life to save? Our child.

Who comes first day to day? Each other.

This only applies to born children. When I was pregnant we were both extremely clear that in a decision between my life and an unborn baby, my life comes first. Our daughter needs. Mother more than a sibling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As someone who has had to make excruciating choices between a spouse and child, this thread is so weird, like you are playing a party game with my life.

OP here and I have to respond. I am sorry if this is triggering. It is not my intent. Probably shouldn’t have started the thread.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My DH and I agreed that we will save our children first.

Also, I also tell my DH to abandon me and run away to save his life, if several men accost us. Why? They will certainly kill my DH if he is around. But, as a woman I know that they will rape me but probably keep me alive.

See what Hamas did with the Israeli women.

I will stay and they will kill is both. Our kids won’t even come to my mind in that moment.

Yes, that is what my DH will naturally be inclined to do because he is a protector at heart, but, I have thought this through and have told this to not only him but my children. I want them to get away. I can survive because I am not seen as a threat.

[Anonymous]

No troll left behind!!

[Anonymous]

We’re all going down!

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband. I have 3 kids and wouldn't want any to be fatherless too. DH is my life partner and I don't think I could go on without him.

Well your kids wouldn’t be here anymore so they wouldn’t be fatherless.

I couldn’t go on without my kids but you do you.

Yeah this is very odd reasoning, being dead is better than losing your father?

It’s my child/children for me op and I would absolutely expect my husband to do the same. I think for most parents if truly in a situation where say you would have to leave your child to drown or you would have to leave your husband to fend for himself and maybe die parents would take child first!

[Anonymous]

If I can’t live, neither should you all!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As someone who has had to make excruciating choices between a spouse and child, this thread is so weird, like you are playing a party game with my life.

OP here and I have to respond. I am sorry if this is triggering. It is not my intent. Probably shouldn’t have started the thread.

It’s not triggering, it’s just really weird that people think this is a fun game to play.

[Anonymous]

My spouse and I both agree that we would put the kids first if it came to a choice. I remember the writer Ayelet Waldman caused a major uproar several years ago for saying she would choose her husband over her children.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1185105/A-mothers-confession-Hate-I-love-husband-MORE-children.html