Have you ever had a kid get into college? The offer is not locked in forever, and can be contingent on a variety of things. You must inform the schools to which you’ve applied or been accepted if you make a course change. It’s better to just stay the course, unless it would threaten the kid’s ability to graduate. |
Calc AB or BC? What major? |
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He should just stay in the class but give himself permission to get a B.
If there are activities he's doing that he is not into, he should drop those. I don't think there is a duty to update dropping out of an acitivity and will give him more time. |
It's really no big deal. 2 kids now in college, both with early acceptances who changed their schedules (one dropped an AP class, one switched to honors). Both skipped the AP exam for the course they dropped/switched and for another class (money gone for the exams I registered/paid for- oh well). One is a Junior and one is a freshman, both boys at highly regarded schools who didn't care about the switches. Straight As for the older one going into Spring of Jr year, and little brother is following- straight As for their first semester |
This. I would call the school first so that my kid knows what the consequences will be before making the switch. And then let them decide. |
| I would not drop, but my kid's college doesn't even accept APs for anything than electives. Most require 5s, and all that gets you is being put in a more advanced class. You still have to take all the requirements. My kid currently has a B in both of her math course (one honors, one AP), and I could care less unless it kills her merit aid--which her counselor said it would not. |
Stop being a d***. Most of these seniors are suffering from burnout. Those that are loading up on APs or equivalent classes have worked incredibly hard and mastered some very hard coursework. We should be proud of them - they will usher in a better tomorrow. These kids wouldn’t be in this place if they didn’t care about learning. They obviously do. In the case of this senior, if he can hold on to his AP classes but throttle down, it may be a better option than dropping the course all together. Why be a jerk about it? |
Caring about getting into a T20 is not the same as caring about learning. Kids who care about learning don’t throttle back once the acceptance letter arrives, they are taking those courses and that load because they are passionate about it. |