Wait til you find out what the purpose of college is |
This is silly. Colleges aren't paying attention to this. |
If our child has this kind f anxiety, they need to fix it before college and career. |
I went to learn things and acquire skills. You do you though. I’m okay with acknowledging it’s just a credential hunt, but then the trade off is we stop referring to these kids as “smart” or “accomplished” or thinking elite college attendance is signifier of anything other than being a good credential hunter. |
+100. Stay in the class, but aim for a B rather than A. Admissions offer wouldn't be rescinded for a B, but could potentially be for a drop down in level without letting the school know during admissions process. |
You need a break from all that hard work! Shut that brain down, spend senior year getting high and getting laid. Colleges don’t really care about “optics” and “ethics” and “following through on commitments”. Once the offer letter is in it’s locked forever and there’s nothing anyone can do about it. |
Don’t inadvertently do any extra learning that you don’t need. |
| You will have to notify the colleges now about the course change, so more likely to affect admission than result in rescinding. |
| They can't do it Op |
Oh yeah? how about student's conscience? just because college's arent paying attention, student should let college admissions perceive their course rigor incorrectly? Elementary school gyms have a poster that says, Character is what you do when no one is paying attention. |
Yes you should notify them. The reason is because they may withdraw their offer if you don’t. It has nothing to do with character. |
I think the answer is, potentially. Especially if you're talking about a small school vs a state school. Class changes are supposed to be reported and when my DC was accepted to a T20 they were given essentially the dos and don'ts of finishing out high school. If memory serves - finish the classes you're taking, don't get anything below a C, and don't get any more than 2 Cs. That said, I know a kid who went to a SLAC and dropped an AP after being accepted ED, but they ran it by the school first. |
This isn't character, it's stupidity. Colleges admit you based on who you are when you apply, if they want to make stupid guesses about what you'll do in the future after they accept you, That's on them to fix their idiotic process. |
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My senior kid asked me just this am about switching out of Calc for the spring semester. He is not trying to major in anything math related but wanted to show challenging classes.
If he switches hoping it doesn't mess anything with admissions. At what point do we need to message the schools he applied He already has a tutor and can't keep head above water in the class. |
The application specifically asks what you are taking next semester. They wouldn't ask if they didn't care. (Colleges care as much about how much you challenge yourself as how well you end up doing.). If you change your schedule a week after you submit the application, then it will be a red flag-- much worse than if you'd just listed weaker classes on the application form (though frankly, showing a drop-down from first to second semester would have drawn attention also...) |