My boss made a comment I feel was flirty

[Anonymous]

Why do half the posters think it’s okay to make jokes about OP having sex with his boss?! I think it was inappropriate and crossed a line . No one should be commenting on people’s bodies at work. She may have felt it was ok, she was just being complimentary etc but it’s not professional or ok. I would feel really uncomfortable if my boss said something like that and I think the posters who are dismissing op should think about how they would feel in the same situation. I also would probably not go to hr over it, but would shut down any more unprofessional behavior and let boss know it made me uncomfortable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Didn’t happen, try again.

No one under 50 calls them Chinos and if you indeed are old enough to call them chinos she didn’t complement your glutes.

I call them chinos and use the word glutes...I'm 45.

A massive about of YouTube exercise videos, Tik tok and insta influencer are all centered around glutes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Until your boss has groped you in a hotel elevator at a conference and wouldn’t stop even though you were crying, don’t tell me you “understand what women go through at work,” asshat.

I think you are giving an extreme example. Most women who are harassed that’s not go to the level you are describing I am sorry. It’s the daily objectifying of women’s bodies that’s honestly unacceptable. Now I am a man so what I think is irrelevant here. But the idea that every harassed woman is the one pinned down by a worthless piece of sh**t horny man in an elevator is not accurate.

Sorry, unless you're a biologist you have no idea who's a woman or not. For all we know OP is actually a man and his boss is a woman.

[Anonymous]

But he is a guy deep down he loves her comment. Men want attention as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP you have a small window of opportunity to smash her. She is horny as f**k. I bet the whole time you were presenting she was wet with all kind of thoughts going through her mind. Men with big glutes send a positive signal. She is probably thinking hip thrust. So don’t wait my man and let us know how it was. Happy new year!

X2. Give her a private presentation!

9.99 out of 10 OP looks like the Kevin James shrugging meme dad bod and his boss was trying to be funny. OP don’t try this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why do half the posters think it’s okay to make jokes about OP having sex with his boss?! I think it was inappropriate and crossed a line . No one should be commenting on people’s bodies at work. She may have felt it was ok, she was just being complimentary etc but it’s not professional or ok. I would feel really uncomfortable if my boss said something like that and I think the posters who are dismissing op should think about how they would feel in the same situation. I also would probably not go to hr over it, but would shut down any more unprofessional behavior and let boss know it made me uncomfortable.

+1 Unacceptable no matter the genders.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why do half the posters think it’s okay to make jokes about OP having sex with his boss?! I think it was inappropriate and crossed a line . No one should be commenting on people’s bodies at work. She may have felt it was ok, she was just being complimentary etc but it’s not professional or ok. I would feel really uncomfortable if my boss said something like that and I think the posters who are dismissing op should think about how they would feel in the same situation. I also would probably not go to hr over it, but would shut down any more unprofessional behavior and let boss know it made me uncomfortable.

They are not jokes-it’s a fantasy for the horny guys on here.

[Anonymous]

If a man made a comment like that he would be reported to HR and possibly fired.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women are smart OP. They are not dumb like men. And if they are honey they have incredible self control not to act on it. In my 30 years career I have never seen a man harassed by a woman at work. It’s really rare. I think she is just a funny boss and be thankful .

Women, being people and all, come in a variety of intelligence levels, integrity levels, fortitude levels...

+1

[Anonymous]

Let's not BS. Work place "harassment" is only harassment if the person making the comment isn't attractive. When a good looking man gives a woman a compliment it's fine. When an ugly man gives a woman a compliment it's offensive.

In the end it's all subjective. When I worked in corporate America I was flirty (not married at the time) with all the cute ladies. Never ever had an issue. I am above average looking and I stay in shape. But, I also read the exact same ladies complain about other guys talking to them who were not as good looking or they just didn't like them.

Again, it's all subjective.