s/o Having the house to yourself?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Generally Saturday mornings DH takes the girls to dance class, library and the farmer's market and then I meet them for brunch. So I have every Saturday morning.

Do you SAH? I see so many befuddled dads running around with the kids at Trader Joes and the farmers market Saturday morning, its hilarious.

I WOHM so we go as family because I see the kids so little as it is. Sure wish I could SAH, but that's another thread. I guess in neither camp gets the house to themselves much...

The real day for this is Mother’s Day and it’s infuriating.

Infuriating?

[Anonymous]

Generally 4 days a week. I prefer having DH around.

[Anonymous]

Once a week and all day. Enough time for me and my AP. Go get her, no one can see into my car because the windows are tinted jet black, pull into the garage and shut the door. Works like a charm.

[CosmicFlower]

I only have a couple of hours to myself each week. Most days I'm working from home while my husband is trying to find a new job so he can work remotely too. We also rented out one of the spare bedrooms to a college student, so there's usually others around. It's hard to find quiet time, especially with a dog around! 🐶

[Anonymous]

I bet there are plenty of jobs that are “in office” jobs. None of the remote work BS! Get your a$$es back in the office.

[Anonymous]

50% of the time now that I'm divorced. Buying and having a house to myself is amazing.

[Anonymous]

My house is 7000sqf. There are 3of us plus three cats

Both my husband and I work out of home.

We feel like the house is so big that when all three of us ( me dh and ds) are in the house together, we r never in each other s way. We love it!

[Anonymous]

We both work from home - I have the house to myself a couple of times a year when my husband travels for work. (No kids, three cats - I consider it time to myself when it's me and the cats.)

[Anonymous]

Once a month now that DH is WFh. I WOH so thisnis a weekend when kids are at grandmas and hes off doing something like a conference.

[Anonymous]

I can only think of one time that I’ve had the house all to myself. I imagine it’s been a few more times, but I am envious of all of you who get to enjoy sweet silence, and solitude.

[Anonymous]

My wife works from home, so almost never. But recently she went to see the kids at college and took the dogs with her.

I love my dogs, but it was nice to have them out of the house too! Just going in and out of the house without them jonesing for a walk or without feeling like you had to rush home to spring them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Once a week when I telework and DH goes to the office. But if it’s a busy day at work I barely appreciate having the house to myself. I try to schedule as few meetings as possible that day so I can enjoy the silence.

This is what I miss most about being single. If anything ever happens to DH I don’t think I’d ever live with anyone else.

Same here. I’m usually too busy to do anything different from my regular work day. It’s a shame because as an introverted mom to two very extroverted and talkative kids I really enjoy quiet when I get to experience it!

[Anonymous]

Maybe five times a year? DH WFH and is always in the house. When he runs errands once a week I have our kids so I’m never alone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My house is 7000sqf. There are 3of us plus three cats

Both my husband and I work out of home.

We feel like the house is so big that when all three of us ( me dh and ds) are in the house together, we r never in each other s way. We love it!

The American nightmare.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This was the hardest pandemic change for me. I've worked from home since 2005, my husband started in March 2020 and hasn't gone back. I've more or less gotten used to it but when I get a rare day at home alone I do enjoy it!

Omigosh, I could have written this. This is why I became so depressed when Covid hit. I lost all my solitude.

And dh retired from the military earlier this year and hasn’t gotten another job yet. He tries to bring me his outrage over rando tweets in the middle of my work day and I just can’t take it anymore!