Brother's girlfriend didn't want to have thanksgiving with mother?

[Anonymous]

This sounds like my family. If the brother is smart he will celebrate every holiday with his girlfriend's family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This sounds like my family. If the brother is smart he will celebrate every holiday with his girlfriend's family.

This.

Her mother looks at everyone like that but then she called the girlfriend a liar. “I believe my mom”

That girlfriend is not worried about either of them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My brother's girlfriend whom he has a baby with (they got together months after he divorced my ex sis in law) told brother she didn't like how my mom looked her over and didn't want to spend thanksgiving together as planned. So I spent thanksgiving with my mom and brother went to spend it with his fiance and her family. I don't like how he lets himself be controlled by the women he's with. He lets them run the show. I am the sister btw. But I don't know how to tell him to let her know to be less sensitive. She talks to my mom when she's over but never mentioned that she was so bothered about the look over which my mom does to almost everyone she meets.

Op it is a mistake for you to be the middle man. Let your mom talk to your brother if she is upset and you would be wise to stay out of it. Not your monkey not your circus

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To add, my mother also had a stroke and has been in recovery since last summer. This chick could have at least been more sympathetic and let any bygones be bygones if she actually was looked at. My mother denies it and said she hasn't looked over this girl or been mean to her. I believe my mom.

Is your brother dating a bird? Otherwise please drop the 60's slang

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:To add, my mother also had a stroke and has been in recovery since last summer. This chick could have at least been more sympathetic and let any bygones be bygones if she actually was looked at. My mother denies it and said she hasn't looked over this girl or been mean to her. I believe my mom.

You mean she didn’t do the look over that she does to almost everyone she meets? So GF is a lucky one who your mom claims got skipped over? I think you must be a troll and not a good one. It’s hard to imagine someone could be so self absorbed as to believe they have any say in a sibling’s relationship.

The fiance is saying it's just being looked over again and again but from what I've seen I have seen no look overs if there was one and I am always there since I'm taking care of my mom since her stroke. Why are y'all so mean and rude? calling people troll and being accusatory? Got damn!

Got damn?

Got Milk?

Got Troll?

I mean OP— “chick” and “certain cultures”? And Original Sauce wife was wonderful and HS sweetheart and perfect for him expect she left him for someone with more money.

And your mother looks most people over. But not the GF. Scratch that, later in the thread she’s the fiancé.

And not sure what’s up with the ESL writing pattern.

Some points, were you to be legit.

First, you do know that it’s normal to for couples to trade off who they spend the holidays with—one family, then the other?

Second, PP is right that the women usually control these things because the men don’t make the effort.

Which leads to the third point: try being nice if you ever want your brother to spend another holiday with you.

Forth: if you can call someone a “chick,” “but, hey it’s nicer tha b—ch,” people can call you and snotty mom horrible.

And finally, troll score 2/10. Better writing and fewer internal inconsistencies could get you a 4/10,” clarifying her race and yours would be the only thing that could get this tired holiday trope above a 5/10.

[Anonymous]

Your mom sounds like a big ole B word.

Why can't your brother spend time with her family? Your family doesnt need to monopolize every holiday.

[Anonymous]

She hair wanted them to go to her family and not to his. The rest was just good ol’ excuses.
Nowadays ILs need to live in a fun area in a large house and be completely hands off -
Otherwise omigosh how can I go to this horrible family for the holidays

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She hair wanted them to go to her family and not to his. The rest was just good ol’ excuses.
Nowadays ILs need to live in a fun area in a large house and be completely hands off -
Otherwise omigosh how can I go to this horrible family for the holidays

Hair?

Yes, she wanted them to spend a holiday with her family. That’s the way couples often so things. And yes, they are more likely to go where they are wanted. Maybe it’s time to become a place they both feel loved and wanted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My mom is also in her 60's so whatever frown lines she has are already etched in. With this chick being in her 20's I think she could be immature. Brother met her at a club. Yes he is immature as well.

You all sound immature.

[Anonymous]

Troll Level: 14-YO drama.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So how did you find out why the gf didn't want to share Tday with you and mom? Guessing your brother told you.

And you believe that he's controlled by the women he's with?

And you need to tell him to tell her to be less sensitive?

Your mother looks over everyone she meets?

Mom having a stroke last year should dictate how the gf acts?

And you're talking about brother's high school sweetheart/first wife as if she has a role in all this?

Sounds like you've the one creating all the drama. You're really grasping here over one incident in which your brother threw his gf under the bus rather so you'd be mad at her and not him.

Carry on....

Yup. Brother blamed his gf for not attending Thanksgiving, and stirred up drama in the process. Seems to run in the family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My brother's girlfriend whom he has a baby with (they got together months after he divorced my ex sis in law) told brother she didn't like how my mom looked her over and didn't want to spend thanksgiving together as planned. So I spent thanksgiving with my mom and brother went to spend it with his fiance and her family. I don't like how he lets himself be controlled by the women he's with. He lets them run the show. I am the sister btw. But I don't know how to tell him to let her know to be less sensitive. She talks to my mom when she's over but never mentioned that she was so bothered about the look over which my mom does to almost everyone she meets.

She has a right to do thanksgiving with her family and your brother has a right to do it with his family. However, neither is obliged to do it with their own or each other's family. Then can agree to do half day with one family and half with other family or one year thanksgiving with his family and Christmas with hers and switch it next year.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Ugh sorry but you both sound horrible. Team girlfriend.

Excuse me, how do I sound horrible? what did I say that sounded horrible?

You're controlling AF

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To add, my mother also had a stroke and has been in recovery since last summer. This chick could have at least been more sympathetic and let any bygones be bygones if she actually was looked at. My mother denies it and said she hasn't looked over this girl or been mean to her. I believe my mom.

You know you sound dumber every time you type “this chick,” right?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My mom is also in her 60's so whatever frown lines she has are already etched in. With this chick being in her 20's I think she could be immature. Brother met her at a club. Yes he is immature as well.

You all sound immature.

No, you sound like a trolling teenager.