I talked to my bank in person and got confirmation that after kid turns 18 being on a CC as authorized user builds the credit history because the bank has to report it to the credit bureaux. My oldest, now 18, has been on my cc since age 14. The yougest who is almost 15 will be soon. Just adding that since my oldest had AHDH and not the best records with not losing things i did keep the card the first years and give it to her only when she was going to store and so on and did not let her keep it in school. After junior year i just let her keep it and there were no issue. |
That's why they get their own card, in their own name, And Don't Use It. Or buy college books at the bookstore once a semester and pay it off. |
You should have your own cc. |
| I would get them their own card, with a low limit. Why not? |
Someone had to have co-signed for you to get you started. It's easier to do when your kid is at home, or still under your guidance. I grew up afraid of debt. All cars were paid for with cash (so low budget end of their life vehicles) A friend of mine got me started on a small credit card when I was 22, just to build up credit. My sister had a credit score of ZERO at age 30, where I had to cosign an auto loan for her, and then encourage her to refinance under her name only a year later. These are life lessons that need to be taught, so you might as well start the conversations and process when they are at home. |
My DH and I moved in together after school. When we went to buy a car, it had to be in his name because he had a credit history and I didn't. I had a higher income, but he'd been on his parents cards since he was 13. |
| Depends on the 18yo. Are they going to buy themselves a Ferrari or use the card wisely? My husband and I put our kids on our credit cards when they started driving. We didn't ever want them to break down somewhere and be unable to call an Uber or Lyft or buy gas. A nice advantage for us is that we could have them pick up groceries, etc., on our card when they were out and about. All four of my kids were very respectful in their use of our card and didn't use it for personal gain without our permission. Helping them get a healthy score was a major bonus when they graduated college and needed to start renting apartments, buying cars, etc. |
You do not need to co-sign an 18yo’s credit card when that adult has a job. Your anecdotes do not sway me in the least. Did I say have no credit till age 30? No, I did not. My once-18yo got a card and charges everything to it and pays it off every month. Has for 2 years, but I don’t know their credit score because it’s not my concern. I give DC a lump sum for college, so it encourages budgeting and planning. I do not pay rent or groceries or utilities directly. Thus, I do not believe in infantilizing 20 year olds. I also don’t need to put a 13yo on my credit card because my kids had debit cards they learned to manage at that age. Doing everything for your kids means they don’t learn it themselves. |
Nice trolling.
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| I’m pp and when my kid applied to college they put the fees on their own card. Same if they pick up groceries for me. I Venmo them back. But, they work and have savings. They’ve always paid for gas. |
Lol. The vast majority of people can't just give their kids a huge lump sum for college. So out of touch with reality. |
This. Our two oldest are now over 18 and have great credit. Their only negative is length of credit history otherwise they’d both have 800. |
This - our bank told us as a joint person on our card, he gets credit for all the usage and on-time paid bills |
My 19-year-old got his CC a few months after turning 18. He has never been on our card. His credit score is 750+. He gets his bill and pays in full immediately. At age 21, your child really needs to get a card in their own name. With a score of 800, it will be easy. |
I wasn't clear...I give a lump sum every semester that covers housing/food/utilities. Spending $$ on kid. So, it's not huge compared to folks on this board, but yes, I've budgeted. |