Rich men in sexless marriage

[Anonymous]

Because a rich man can have a few side pieces without having to get a divorce, see kids only half the time, etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sex is a big thing for most healthy men…their strongest driving force.

If you are wealthy it’s rational to have an affair or side piece if your wife isn’t giving it to you.

Lol

Not everyone cheats or needs some trash on the side.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Kind of a dumb topic. Rich or poor, a married man can always get sex if his wife doesn't put out.

Lol, what? No. As a woman, would you bang a random married schlub from your office?

[Anonymous]

Have a prenup, didn't cheat, almost left.

It was very hard because I didn't want to do that to me children. Went basically sexless, sex a few times a year maybe 10 times on a good year.

After around 6 years I couldn't take it anymore. I told DW I wanted a divorce. We did work through it and have been together 22 years

I had opportunities but I had morals I guess

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sex is a big thing for most healthy men…their strongest driving force.

If you are wealthy it’s rational to have an affair or side piece if your wife isn’t giving it to you.

Lol

Not everyone cheats or needs some trash on the side.

Your reply makes no sense given the (true) statement about men's sex drive. Do the math: if his wife is uninterested, where else do you think his sex is coming from?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Rich men are smart enough not to give away half their net worth for sex.

+1.

And what happens when sex dries in the next marriage? Leave again?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sex is a big thing for most healthy men…their strongest driving force.

If you are wealthy it’s rational to have an affair or side piece if your wife isn’t giving it to you.

Why did you get married in the first place? It sounds like you regret getting married. That is a much bigger problem than how many times a week you are getting laid.

Get clear with a therapist about if you want a divorce and then tell your spouse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sex is a big thing for most healthy men…their strongest driving force.

If you are wealthy it’s rational to have an affair or side piece if your wife isn’t giving it to you.

Would a wealthy man also accept his wife's discreet affair(s)?

Oddly enough, religion.

[Anonymous]

Maybe because he has a crappy personality,,which is why he’s in a sexless marriage, but would also prevent him from finding a decent affair partner.

[Anonymous]

One friend circle I'm in is a number of wealthy men, all self-made. They all have side pieces. Some have regulars they are dating or sugar dating, others go straight to women for hire on an hourly basis. They all travel a lot for work, so it's easy to have someone in another city and keep it under wraps. It's not like you're going to run into a parent from your kids' school when you're in some other city thousands of miles away.

Who knows, maybe the wives suspect something but just look the other way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sex is a big thing for most healthy men…their strongest driving force.

If you are wealthy it’s rational to have an affair or side piece if your wife isn’t giving it to you.

Why did you get married in the first place? It sounds like you regret getting married. That is a much bigger problem than how many times a week you are getting laid.

Get clear with a therapist about if you want a divorce and then tell your spouse.

No. Things change with time.

I’m wealthy and want to protect that wealth from a potential divorce—-prenup with everything separate.

That was my requirement for marriage. Plenty of women were ok with it, because I’m rich and fit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Kind of a dumb topic. Rich or poor, a married man can always get sex if his wife doesn't put out.

Lol, what? No. As a woman, would you bang a random married schlub from your office?

There are a lot of very damaged women, women with low self esteem, women in very bad or abusive marriages, who would indeed have sex with the married schlub in your office if he was sweet to her and made her feel good. It’s just the reality, pp.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One friend circle I'm in is a number of wealthy men, all self-made. They all have side pieces. Some have regulars they are dating or sugar dating, others go straight to women for hire on an hourly basis. They all travel a lot for work, so it's easy to have someone in another city and keep it under wraps. It's not like you're going to run into a parent from your kids' school when you're in some other city thousands of miles away.

Who knows, maybe the wives suspect something but just look the other way.

DADT FTW

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Kind of a dumb topic. Rich or poor, a married man can always get sex if his wife doesn't put out.

Lol, what? No. As a woman, would you bang a random married schlub from your office?

I'm the guy who posted that. I might be a schlub but when my wife cut me off I had a FWB who was about 15 years younger. She was wonderful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sex is a big thing for most healthy men…their strongest driving force.

If you are wealthy it’s rational to have an affair or side piece if your wife isn’t giving it to you.

Why did you get married in the first place? It sounds like you regret getting married. That is a much bigger problem than how many times a week you are getting laid.

Get clear with a therapist about if you want a divorce and then tell your spouse.

No. Things change with time.

I’m wealthy and want to protect that wealth from a potential divorce—-prenup with everything separate.

That was my requirement for marriage. Plenty of women were ok with it, because I’m rich and fit.

BS.