Women who prioritize looks, does it ever end well?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:One of the most persistent copes on this board is that attractive people can't be smart, successful, deep, etc.


None of those are related. Smart and successful often aren’t necessarily related. Deep and successful (if you mean earn a lot of money/prestige by successful) are sort of opposite because amassing material things sort of rules out thinking deeply about the world and our place in it. So it may be a “cope” but attractive people usually buy into the idea that being successful means keeping up appearances, which isn’t really deep.


There are two kinds of attractive: clothes, makeup, car, etc; and naturally symmetric, healthy, and physically fit.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Every woman I know who goes after mainly the good looking guys ends up perpetually single while the women who go for less hot looking guys who are better in the money/career department tend to settle down, get married, and have families. Anyone else notice this?


Or you can be like my nephew's fiance. She spent her 20s looking for Chad, Brad, Thad, or Tad, who is 6'2", built up, and has a beard. In other words, one of the guys on the Bachelor. Then she got to early 30s, figured she would wind up alone, and found my nephew - nice, average looking man.
Anonymous
Every woman I know who doesn’t pick for looks never wants to have sex with their husbands. The women seem happy with the situation. The men are clueless. Men - if your wife is better looking than you, your days of marital sex are limited.
Anonymous
According to my wife it ended up very well for her.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Every woman I know who goes after mainly the good looking guys ends up perpetually single while the women who go for less hot looking guys who are better in the money/career department tend to settle down, get married, and have families. Anyone else notice this?


A fat woman went after my ex and got him. He was a decent looking guy but had loads of cash. Word is she puts out on the first date.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My husband says I am the most beautiful woman he has ever known——. OMG op did he just marry me for my looks?!???


Sounds like he married you because he was the only woman he's ever known.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Every woman I know who doesn’t pick for looks never wants to have sex with their husbands. The women seem happy with the situation. The men are clueless. Men - if your wife is better looking than you, your days of marital sex are limited.


Now you tell me!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Every woman I know who goes after mainly the good looking guys ends up perpetually single while the women who go for less hot looking guys who are better in the money/career department tend to settle down, get married, and have families. Anyone else notice this?


A fat woman went after my ex and got him. He was a decent looking guy but had loads of cash. Word is she puts out on the first date.


1954 called -- it wants it's nonsense back.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Every woman I know who doesn’t pick for looks never wants to have sex with their husbands. The women seem happy with the situation. The men are clueless. Men - if your wife is better looking than you, your days of marital sex are limited.


Now you tell me!


Isn't it more about upkeep and hygiene than raw good looks? Most people aren't super good looking to start with.
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