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I just agreed with the person who suggested the thread was full of trolls. That doesn't make me one, sorry to disappoint you. |
I'm newer to the field but very knowledgeable, and that's around what I'm charging. People with more years in the business may charge much more and be fully booked. But they might also be inclined to be out of touch and self-flattering (like one pp suggested), and they might be remembering the good old days when current reaches were safeties. |
Please, do not follow this poster's advice. |
OP here, thanks. Not averse to a package but not ready for that at this time. Do you mind sharing your counselor contact? |
Different poster (I posted above urging you not to follow another poster's advice.) I have been involved in this field for several decades and am current, but I handle just a few students per admissions cycle. I do not want to publish my contact info, but would be willing to address any concerns that you feel comfortable sharing on this website. What type of advice are you seeking ? School selection ? Career ? Essays ? Strategy ? Or are you seeking help with apps & financial aid--which are not my interest. |
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I do not think this forum is full of trolls, but it's full of biased people, OP. Most of them have not hired counselors, and therefore, do not think it's worth it. Just a few regret whatever decision they made. I agree that it's hard to identify, then hire, a great counselor. Bear in mind that one that's good for the neighbor or friend might not be good for your kid. It's perfectly true that the more well-established counselors seek to mold kids' whole high school experience. It's not only a better financial choice for them, but it's also professionally more rewarding because they have more time to influence the outcome. Surely everyone can understand that! And since this area is very ambitious and wealthy, well then... it means the better known counselors won't have much space for the harried senior or even junior. Best of luck, OP. I have friends who hired counselors. We did not: we did consider Prep Matters, but in the end only paid for tutoring and test prep and did the admission process ourselves. If you don't, be prepared to put in A LOT OF WORK. It's the rare 17 year old who can manage college apps by themselves, these days. |
| find someone good in chicago , etc. def not someone based out of nyc or SF. you'll pay 5k instead of 15k |
We don't need any of the services you mention. And we didn't hire the counselor blind. We had a 2 hour meeting with them first off, which was impressive. It was when we got down to brass tacks that their deficits started to show. |
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the very good advice I got early on was: your kid is not that special.
+ look at the college placement from your high school from the last three years. + remove the schools that aren't a good fit/too high/too low. So for us that was the military academies, the super stem schools, the lows. The "highs" are a little harder to lop off .. isn't my kid a high too? So okay, keep the highs. + there's your draft list of 30-50 colleges. then run the NPC and knock a few more out. + then visit big small rural city big small schools. knock out the kind of school doesn't fit for your kid. down to 20. + Now it's junior year late spring and your kid has to research these 20 schools. You have your grades now and test scores. some of the "highs" no longer realistic. narrow it down to 12. + higher an essay coach to help but nothing else. This advice works if your kid goes to a solid high school where kids go to good schools. If your kid will be the first to ever consider Princeton from Iowa City High, you'll need more help. |
If it is a disciplinary issue, then you should consider engaging an experienced counselor. Not all college consultants do all things related to the college application process. This is one reason to be able to articulate what you need & expect from any college advisor. |
Mine didn’t |
yeah I think they pulled that number out of their backside. famous ones charge a fraction of that/ hr. |
This is all such good advice. But I want to echo the bolded. I can’t emphasize this enough. I find that certain schools just DON’T accept people from my kid’s high school. My kid’s school publishes a ton of very detailed matriculation data so it makes it easy to mine it for insights. |
Those are incompetent wannabes. |
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I totally agree that there's a 99% likelihood that your kid will go to a college that someone from their high school (class of 20-23) went to. People go to high schools with people like themselves, with similar social class and interests. So start with that list.
I see that break down once in a while when there's an UMC family with a mediocre student who wants something "different" than where mediocre students usually go .. so they end up with something a little different for this area like Puget Sound or U of Utah or an overseas school. |